Anonymous1338 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I went hot&cold on her the first time she liked me, and screwed it up. 7 months later, I've been given a second chance. We have gotten along really well for a couple weeks now, but I made the mistake of not talking to her enough today and Wednesday (I see her basically every other day) because I had a rough week and I was just a grumpy old troll, and now I think she thinks I'm doing it all over again. Only a week left in the semester before we all go back home (dorming college, she lives 6 hours away) and it is finals week. I need to show her I really do care for her. Nothing has been said, but I believe our feelings were (are?) mutually understood. We have a calculus final Monday. So do I ask her to study with me even though we have never studied together for any of the previous tests? Isn't that weird? But I don't think I have time for a date with her, and I don't think we're at that point yet where we should be dating, it would probably be awkward and unsuccessful if I rushed it now though it is possible it could go great. I want to get to know her more first though. Ughh I'm so distraught. I don't want her leaving and getting over me over the summer. On the contrary, I want to be able to skype/text her over the summer to advance our relationship. I'm so scared now she thinks I'm blowing her off again....
louise_23 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I went hot&cold on her the first time she liked me, and screwed it up. 7 months later, I've been given a second chance. We have gotten along really well for a couple weeks now, but I made the mistake of not talking to her enough today and Wednesday (I see her basically every other day) because I had a rough week and I was just a grumpy old troll, and now I think she thinks I'm doing it all over again. Only a week left in the semester before we all go back home (dorming college, she lives 6 hours away) and it is finals week. I need to show her I really do care for her. Nothing has been said, but I believe our feelings were (are?) mutually understood. We have a calculus final Monday. So do I ask her to study with me even though we have never studied together for any of the previous tests? Isn't that weird? But I don't think I have time for a date with her, and I don't think we're at that point yet where we should be dating, it would probably be awkward and unsuccessful if I rushed it now though it is possible it could go great. I want to get to know her more first though. Ughh I'm so distraught. I don't want her leaving and getting over me over the summer. On the contrary, I want to be able to skype/text her over the summer to advance our relationship. I'm so scared now she thinks I'm blowing her off again.... youve overthought this. ask her to study with you. see what happens. what have you got to lose??
Author Anonymous1338 Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 She obviously is a little upset/frustrated with me, so I feel like I have a reason to be worried since this is horrible timing for anything to go bad between us. This girl was very hesitant with me to begin with because of last time, now I'm just worried she'll try and move on for good thinking I'm blowing her off like this on purpose. I'll ask her to study tomorrow once I study by myself a but so I don't look dumb in front of her, but what should I say? She gets really awkward sometimes when feelings come into the picture (she's a naturally awkward person) so I need to keep it light but make a point with my words.
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