Breck Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 So my girlfriend and I broke up (I was the dumpee). I went NC to get ahold of my emotions. I eventually called her once I was back to normal. We reconciled and agreed to take it slow. We are taking it slow, but now the romance is lost and I don't care anymore. I was so hung up on her for a longtime too. It's not that I couldn't regain those feelings, but by taking it slow, it feels like a friendship. Do I tell her that we need to flirt, go on a romantic date, decide where this is going or do I just tell her that I've had a hange of heart and walk away? I'm just disappointed that I was once romantically interested but she stopped flirting and slowed us down to a crawl and now that built up interest is completely lost!
AshinKusher Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 You should do what feels right, if that romance you shared before is worth trying to get back then i'd say go for it before its gone. I dont know the reason's for your breaking up so mayb she needs to be taking it slow, but you need to talk to her, tell her how you feel and that you need to add a little more spice to the relationship because it isn't working.
dandan89 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Didn't you only just post a thread yesterday about her not calling you? If you've only just got back together then it's gonna take more time and it's got to go slow. Or it could be that when she was gone you missed her and now she is back you realise it wasn't her you missed and it was the companionship you missed. Just a thought.
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