CallMeKing Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Okay, so last week I asked this Senior girl to Prom (I'm a Junior) and she said yes, so we went to Prom together and she seemed like she had a good time. Fast forward to earlier today, I see her and a group of friends exiting Wal-Mart and she waves and said "Hi" to me and I did the same, so I decided to call her later and see if she wanted to go see a movie or something tomorrow. Well, I called her and asked if she was doing anything tomorrow but she said that she would be busy with something for her Church and seemed like she was in a rush to get off the phone... Now I'm not sure whether or not she just went to Prom with me because nobody else asked her, or if she's just not interested in me and only agreed out of pity, or what, but I've never asked a girl out before now and can't help but think school is going to be awkward Monday... Thoughts? Advice? Please and thank you! P.S. I really like her and would like to go out with her, but I don't want to ask her again if she's uninterested because I'd hate to be a bother.
dasein Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Welcome to the forum. No, you are doing everything right. Saw her, called her on the phone and asked her out. Don't feel awkward at all, you did what adult men do every day, and many men are too chicken to do. Don't sweat it. It's easy to think that everyone at school will know she turned you down for a date, but they won't, and even if they did they wouldn't care. If someone did think badly of it or give you a hard time, that person is a turd, don't let turds get you down. Who knows what she had going on when you called her? or why she was in a hurry to get off the phone? In your shoes, would wait a few days, maybe a week, and then call and ask her out again. If she says no that time, and doesn't suggest a plan B, then move on, get out there and find more women to ask out. Build options for yourself. You are doing great.
Bob_Funk Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 (edited) You're a junior, and your only experience with girls is taking some ungrateful princess to the prom? You obviously need to work on your social status and looks. For social status: become a sports star, start a club, join a rock band, etc. For looks: grow muscles, update your wardrobe, style your hair, etc. Get your status and looks rating up high enough, and you won't have to chase girls around like some headless chicken (only to get rejected). Instead, they'll come to you. And for goodness' sake, act now. While you're still young. Edited May 5, 2012 by Bob_Funk
callingyouuu Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 You're a junior, and your only experience with girls is taking some ungrateful princess to the prom? You obviously need to work on your social status and looks. For social status: become a sports star, start a club, join a rock band, etc. For looks: grow muscles, update your wardrobe, style your hair, etc. Get your status and looks rating up high enough, and you won't have to chase girls around like some headless chicken (only to get rejected). Instead, they'll come to you. And for goodness' sake, act now. While you're still young. ^^Please don't do this. Then you'll just become a tool. I agree with what others have said. You're doing things right so far! 1
Author CallMeKing Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 @dasein Thank you for the welcome! Your message was so motivational that I've decided to try again later this week, but I'm going to have to be perceptive and attempt to gauge her interest before that... I really am having a hard time doing that! @Bob_Funk I have more important things to concern myself with than the trivial games that others invent to amuse their simple minds, besides, I go to a small private school full of idiots and rednecks with only a few people actually worth interacting with. I don't like sports, my friends and I started an "I.T. Club" (the only Club in the school), and I'd rather listen to music than perform it. I'm healthy my muscles are average I suppose, I'm in the process of updating my wardrobe now, and I like my hair the way it is. Thank you for trying to be helpful, but the reason I have no prior experience is because this girl is the only one I've ever seen as worth pursuing. @callingyouuu I won't, believe me, and thanks.
lovelydovey Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Girls at this age are silly. They don't know what they want entirely, and are easily swayed by their friends opinions. I agree with every one else when they said you're doing everything just fine. Just roll with it and see where it lands you. Don't worry about it too much, cause you just might come off too strong. Good luck!
Author CallMeKing Posted May 6, 2012 Author Posted May 6, 2012 @lovelydovey Alright ten I guess I'll just watch myself to make sure I'm not being too forceful and try again in a few days! Thanks!
smith9800 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 TO make sure that she is interested in you or not, you have to wait for some time..
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