Sean Lee Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Hey guys, I'm new here and just registered to ask a question. This may be a long post so thanks if you read the whole thing! Let's start off with some background info. My name is Sean, and I'm a junior in high school. I'm just an average guy, athletic, "alright looking" guy from what I've heard from people, and I'm super involved with my school. My ex girlfriend, Lindsay, is a sophomore. She's a cheerleader, super preppy, and smart. We met last year and we clicked. After a few months of knowing each other, I finally asked her to be my girlfriend. We were both new to relationships, so it only lasted about 6 months, as it got real boring, and we didn't really think things over before we broke up. Well, my junior year came, and I met this really amazing girl on my cross country team. As before, we instantly clicked, but at the same time, I developed feelings for Lindsay again. She started dating another guy the same time I was dating this girl. At the start of the relationship, I couldn't help but think of Lindsay and why we broke up. At the same time, Lindsay started going out with another guy. I eventually dropped her and moved on with my new girlfriend. A few months later, I gained feelings for Lindsay again, and her and her boyfriend broke up. From what I've heard, she started to like me again; I've heard this from several people. Including her friends. She told a ton of people that she liked me. Being the idiot I am, I lost feelings for my girlfriend and I broke up with her, because I didn't want to be in a relationship while I liked another girl. It's not right. Lindsay knew that I was going to break up with my now ex, because I told one of my friends, and she found out somehow. She would keep asking me if I did it yet, but never really pushed me to do it. When I finally did, Lindsay and I started talking again and hung out more often. We were going great until about a month ago when she found out I was going to ask her to prom. She told me she really liked me but if we were to go to prom, she would only want to go as friends. She said she didn't want a relationship. She just wanted to be friends. So i asked one of my friends to prom. She said yes. After that, Lindsay would ask if my friend and I have a thing or if I like my ex again because she would see me talking to her. It's like she was paranoid or something. Well anyways, fast forward to now. We don't do much together, but we talk a lot. The other night, I asked one of her friends if Lindsay still likes me. She told me that she was on the fence; between me, and this other guy, and that she would talk to Lindsay again to confirm everything that is happening. The other guy is super athletic, way better looking than I am, and seriously a ton of girls at school think he is cute. I just don't know what to do. Today, after school, I asked her friend again, and she said that Lindsay really likes this guy, and I probably shouldn't go after her. My friend, that's going out with Lindsay's friend, said the same thing. They told me they hate seeing her do this to me...like she's leading me on. Normally, I would follow my friends' advice. But for this one, I can't help it. I like her too much. I know I'm dumb for wanting to pursue her, but I just can't drop her. Thanks for reading this. So my question is, should I wait for her?
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 I'm a 27 yr old dude. Even though being a junior in high school was 10 yrs ago, the memory of that time is fresh. My advice: don't wait for her and find a new gf. I've been in your situation, more or less. Lindsay is a waste of time. Move on, Sean.
Sid6.7 Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Absolutely not. Don't be a chump man, she sure isn't waiting for you! Isn't this obvious? She is laughing to her friends about you and sharing every little personal aspects about you that you never wanted to be made known. Oh yes, they chat. Sean, do you really think this is the best you can do? Really? C'mon. What you do is drop this chic right on her ass. You are in school and you need to focus on your studies and going to college to hone your craft and develop your career. Do not let her deter you from that. Ever. Now I am not saying don't get out and have fun, certainly do that. But when it's all said and done and you are making the big bucks in your career you can look back and laugh yourself. By that point you will have your pick of the litter, trust me they can smell the money from a mile away. Reach between your legs and remind yourself you have a set of balls. Are they still there? I hope so. Good luck.
Quiet Storm Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Ooh don't you just love high school drama. I would move on. You deserve a girl that is into you and is sure that she wants you over another guy. She's been with you. She knows what you are like and what you have to offer. If she was truly feeling you, there would be no competition. If you end up with her, you're going to remember this and feel like second choice. I would just focus on other girls, school, sports or whatever you are into...and leave Lindsay be. HS is just one little tiny part of your life. If you get hung up on one person you may miss out on people that are better for you.
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