ricardo57365 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Me and my wife have been together over 10 yrs and been marred for 3 yrs no kids we separated for two years since I cheated two times. For two years she beg me in I so blinded that I didn't went back to her. Now that I finally ended my second relationship cuz she was always on the picture since my ex would bring her name all the time. Last December was the last time she beg me Plus the beginning of january she was still willing to forgive me. In mid January she call my ex to tell her that we are still talking Plus the second week of March she call my ex again to tell her that she knows that I went to Chicago. Now that I broke up with my ex in February 14 2012 my wife says she no longer love me but the same night I beg her we had sex I guess to see if she still have feelings for me. I known that she has talking to someone thats I think she feels this way. She already served me with the divorced papers in church but I left them theres. Also she call me in my birthday which was April 13, 2012 I was surprised to see that she but I didn't answer cuz I was in church is this I good sign that she still have feelings for me? I feel that she doesn't believe that I change Plus I see that she hates me went I see her at church. The whole month of March I text but she never reply until two weeks ago that I text her I wanted to know Howe shes doing and if we can talk. She reply back saying what do you want to talk about she send me the same text two times I just saids to get how are you doing then she didn't reply. Now I change the way I dress the way I talk everything but she doesn't see it Plus I'm going to the same church that she's going in which me and her don't talk. What else can I do to get her back? Should I keep going to the same church that's she's going or should I go another one? Should I text ones a month or what else should I do to get her attracted to me to see the new me. Recently I text her some bible quotes and she reply with more quotes. Then I text her that I'm praying to god to be together again then she reply Ricardo me and are history. Can any one give me a good advice on what to do next? by the way she also text me how was my dad.
2long Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Sorry, it doesn't sound like anything like a healthy relationship. Be thankful you don't have kids, and let her go. -ol' 2long 3
TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 I don't think you're going to be able to pull anything out of this, ricardo.... If she says 'we're history'... I don't see how you're going to be able to get past that. 1
samsungxoxo Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 But didn't you had your chance when she was begging you back? Now that she says ''We're histoy'', you want her back? I think it's too late by now but you may keep trying. 1
nofool4u Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 You cheated, not once, but twice. You leave her alone if she wants nothing to do with you. Don't ever try to ram yourself down her throat. You let her come to you if she wants.
KathyM Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 It's time to throw in the towel on this. Too much crap has gone down, and the feelings are no longer there on her end. It's too bad you didn't value your relationship when you had it. You often don't get another chance when things get as bad as they did in your marriage. Time to let it go.
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