madball2289 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 (edited) OK, so me and my ex have been apart since January. WE didn't date for all that long but I kinda fell for her hard. SHe was the one that walked away, but the last two weekends when I was out I bumped into her twice. I kept the convos short and friendly and just went about my business. I was blatanly making it a point to be talking to other girls while she was around. But I do have to say that she has been coming back into my thoughts again. Like I'm starting to think this is who I want to be with. SHould i tell her? Although she was the one that walked away and hasnt initated any sort of contact I'm also thinking, at the same time, it isn't a good idea. Its not a life or death situation haha, just something that's on my mind. I'm just looking for a few opinions. I havent really met anyone else to fill the void so that's why I think it was easy for her to be back on my mind. I figured if she wanted to talk to me again she would of done something but she hasn't, that's why I don't think I should tell her anything but I can't stop thinking about this ****. One other thing, one of her best friends invited me to a party at her house and invited my ex. Now i see this her friend out all the time and chat with her and its cool, but isn't inviting me to a party and my ex a bit much??? seems odd to me. Edited May 3, 2012 by madball2289
Gulf-Delta Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Have you had any contact with her since you broke up in January? Maybe NC for a couple months would be a good idea, THEN make a decision.
Author madball2289 Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 we texted once back in january but other than seeing her in person the last two weekends there has been no contact at all.
getsback Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 It really depends on how the rejection would make you feel, and only you can know that deep down. We don't know enough about the situation, but the chances are she will reject your advances. If you think being rejected wouldn't bother you too much, then by all means give it a shot. Life is all about taking chances! But if you think it would depress you or make you feel down, don't take the risk. Its not worth it. Good luck!
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