PlumPrincess Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 There are more men than women in general, at least until you get to the older populations. In some parts of the world the gender ration is close to 150 males to 100 females. If we don't have multiple husbands per each woman, there's going to be a lot of men who will have some pretty difficult choices: a) forced homosexuality b) sex dolls c) cloning women d) celibacy. I remember reading this article years ago: With Women So Scarce, What Can Men Do? - TIME The result: China, according to the World Health Organization, is short 50 million females. The article said that there was a rise in marriages between first cousins and even siblings. I think another consequence will also be a rise in human trafficking. They will import women from the poorer countries around them: The Regrets of a Foreign Bride - TIME
oaks Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Apologies, I'm not personally trying to put any vitriol towards women, but the argument itself ("I deserve a hot woman!" "Hot women are stuck up!" "Hot women are sluts who sleep with players!" etc.) is inherently bitter and hostile towards attractive females. But nobody is making the argument that they deserve a hot woman! Those other remarks aren't widespread, either (at least, nobody rational and nobody you should be paying heed to is saying these things, although we do get plenty of trolls here and who knows what guff you'll find written on the PUA sites). So, I refer you to my earlier remarks - you're paying too much attention to what you referred to as "PUA-tastic" websites.
TheBigQuestion Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Apologies, I'm not personally trying to put any vitriol towards women, but the argument itself ("I deserve a hot woman!" "Hot women are stuck up!" "Hot women are sluts who sleep with players!" etc.) is inherently bitter and hostile towards attractive females. I think because of that whole power/entitlement dynamic... hot women have something unbalanced men want, and won't just give it to them, so they MUST be taken down a peg. Which is preferable... to be treated slavishly but in a hostile fashion by men because you're hot, or ignored in a hostile fashion by men because you're not? It wasn't that long ago that you were posting threads where you expressed irritation at and envy towards attractive women, so don't be surprised if not everyone here takes your assertions at face value. And furthering the assertion that men are more likely than women to feel unjustifiably entitled to attractive partners regardless of their own relative attractiveness is a mountain that I doubt you want to climb.
mesmerized Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I think they would. A lot of attractive women AND men can get away with cheating easily. I think a lot of men would be totally ok banging a hot girl even though they are the only one and prefer it to being with an average/ugly girl.
Feelsgoodman Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 I think I could propose a solution that would work for everybody. Polyandry. How bout this, average guys: hot women will continue sleeping with the hot men, but will ALSO sleep with you. You'll have to share her with a hotter guy, but hey, at least you're not banging the stuck-up averages and the uggos, right? The kind of solution that you are proposing has existed for thousands of years. It's called prostitution. 1
g450 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Hmmm well lets see.. Sloppy seconds vs keep my dignity and jack off. I think Ill stick with masturbation TY. BTW, nothing wrong with fat chicks. They need loving 2. Dont knock it till you tried it. They tend to be much better lovers than the anorexic supermodel types.
JohnP82 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 What self respecting man would share his woman with another guy? I'd rather be alone that share a woman with another man.
Woggle Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 I wouldn't but then again I would never expect a woman to share me. I don't know wives in polygamist marriages do it.
RedRobin Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 All I'm saying is that regardless of people's preferences, polyandry will become a reality. Thank you God!! (channeling that scene from Animal House... but this time it is a random Hot Guy that comes flying in through the window)...
jobaba Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 I realize this post is more of a gag, but... When I have imagined or fabricated the picture of a woman I have feelings for sleeping with another man, it absolutely kills me. If it were reality, I'd be a blubbering mess. So it would not work. Why do you think ex-boyfriends go out and slit the throats of these poor little girls that they can't get over? So no other man can have them. Human emotions are a bitch.
MaxNoob Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Dammit, I had this song stuck in my head while reading this thread:
Leigh 87 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 And - your theory is flawed, because the hottst girls mostly want a meaningul, monogomus relationship. They do not want to go off with other dudes - they may actually like or love their fellow hot men. Another thing - some average or only mildly cute girls can get hot boyfriends - They do not go around thinking they are never good enough for the " hot" guys, and that if a hot guy wants to date her, he will never grow to like the " average: girl enough to want to be with her. Of course -- if your average, even falling in love with your wonderful personality is nto enough - the guy will obviously want to bang hotter girls. Sure, super hot guys do not go for average girls, because there are hot girls who have great pesonalities - however, it is still bleak and wrong to assume that average girls should assume that any good looking guy who isinterested in her, is never going to be loyal to her.
RedRobin Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Dammit, I had this song stuck in my head while reading this thread: That was hilarious... :lmao:
Sanman Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Here is a better question....why would the hot guys want to share the hot women with the loser guys?
threebyfate Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 The objectification of women is truly disturbing in this thread, as if it's acceptable to use hot women since they're in demand. As far as polyandry becoming a reality, it already is a reality but based on the hoarding nature of humanity, won't ever become the norm. 2
Sanman Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 BTW, nothing wrong with fat chicks. They need loving 2. Dont knock it till you tried it. They tend to be much better lovers than the anorexic supermodel types. 6 Reasons Why You Should Date a Fat Girl « Regretful Morning
FrustratedStandards Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Seriously? I am under a completely different notion. I see a lot more hot women than men! 1
SarahRose Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 The objectification of women is truly disturbing in this thread, as if it's acceptable to use hot women since they're in demand. As far as polyandry becoming a reality, it already is a reality but based on the hoarding nature of humanity, won't ever become the norm. i blame the porn industry 1
Negative Nancy Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 (edited) What needs to happen is that women would stop settling for sex only arrangements and not go for guys that are already sleeping with a few girls. Intentionally or not, women place themselves in harem situations. And no man is going to say no to easy sex. Right You realize that you're contradicting yourself right in those two paragraphs. So women should stop settling for sex only arrangements, but at the same time you would not say no either if all kinds of women offered themselves to you. Women should not go for guys that are already having a harem, but I bet at the same time YOU wouldn't mind one bit if women went for YOU as the guy to have sex with, huh Where's men's responsibility in all this? Edited May 4, 2012 by Negative Nancy 1
manup Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Seriously? I am under a completely different notion. I see a lot more hot women than men! I'm not directing this at you or anyone on here, but I really think today's women have an over-inflated sense of themselves. Most women think they are much hotter than they are. I've seen a lot of average looking (imo) say they are hot and I'm bewildered when I see their pictures.
Negative Nancy Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 The objectification of women is truly disturbing in this thread, as if it's acceptable to use hot women since they're in demand. I can't believe I'm saying this, but I agree with you. It's just typical men's nature, they just wanna use women for pumping and dumping. It's obvious that to them that is the only value a woman has, since they all judge women on looks, looks, and oh did I mention looks. Looks trump everything for men, and then they ironically complain that women are shallow
carhill Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 OP, at this stage of the game it wouldn't matter to me. My experience has been that women pretty much do whatever they want. The fly in the ointment with your idea is that women are as sexually indiscriminate as many men. That reality would be the sticking point. However, I have found that some women (many in my experience) are fine with using average men as emotional boosters and repositories for their 'stuff'. So, perhaps, one aspect of polyandry applies, just not to sex.
Author verhrzn Posted May 4, 2012 Author Posted May 4, 2012 The objectification of women is truly disturbing in this thread, as if it's acceptable to use hot women since they're in demand. That's what I was trying to point out. I think a lot of guys who complain about "hot women" and, heck, women in general, don't actually try to examine their philosophies to their logical end. (Share all the hot women, women as objects, etc.) Even more damaging, I think a lot of them see themselves as "nice guys" who "respect" women, without realizing that the way they think is actually very damaging and degrading to the very people they are trying to attract. I was hoping that by really pushing this thought process into the realm of slight parody, I could show just how ridiculous and dehuminizing it is. I guess I didn't realize the sad part that this thought process is SO common and "accepted" that people actually thought I was serious. That is what is truly sad to me, that the things I did as parody (treating hot women as objects, debasing unattractive women) aren't recognized as parody because so many people seem to actually think this way! 3
somedude81 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Right You realize that you're contradicting yourself right in those two paragraphs. So women should stop settling for sex only arrangements, but at the same time you would not say no either if all kinds of women offered themselves to you. Women should not go for guys that are already having a harem, but I bet at the same time YOU wouldn't mind one bit if women went for YOU as the guy to have sex with, huh Where's men's responsibility in all this? LOL, are you trying to guilt trip me or something? Men, have little if any responsibility in this. It's not our role. Men are the battering rams, women should be manning the gates. Though I do think that men should at least be honest with their intentions. In the past, women used to be virtuous. They kept men in line.
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