irc333 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 OKay, I have a female friend that works with a school teacher. I saw her friend through her FB friends list....and she has these really seductive photos, nothing slutty or anything, but sexy poses. Like her smiling at a beach, her boobs and cleavage hanging to the towel, or a tight little dress showing off a little skin. I would say PG 13 rated sexy. Pretty smile. And asked my female friend if she's single...and I was told she's like married with 3 or 4 kids. I was like "Happily"? LOL But, she doesn't ACT married, that's the strange thing.
veggirl Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 A sexy dress or a bikini *at the beach* is acting single? Huh. K. 2
veggirl Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Why does this get posted all the time? Are you the guy who posts about why do married women go to bars? PS: Facebook isn't a dating site or something. People can put up whatever pics they want for their friends / family to see. It's not misleading. A bikini at the beach, a cute or sexy dress isn't "heeeey look at me I'm singlllle!" You are really....strange in what you expect married women to act like. 3
threebyfate Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 All married women should look and act like soccer moms and all married men should have toupees and convertibles to compensate for their runaway, disloyal hair.
veggirl Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 All married women should look and act like soccer moms and all married men should have toupees and convertibles to compensate for their runaway, disloyal hair. MOM JEANS. Even if they aren't a mom. 1
TigerCub Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Nah man - he's onto something Clearly that woman is paving the way to seducing a few of her under age students with her sexy pics I say report her to the proper authorities.
Author irc333 Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 MOM JEANS. Even if they aren't a mom. LOL...welll, she has quite a few seductive photos of herself in various poses, showing off cleaveage , hiked up little black dreses....none with he husband, just of herself. My friend who works with her is wondering about that, because she is single and dresses somewhat conservatively, and even she thinks she shouldn't be doing that. Kinda a middle aged A.W.
pteromom Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Maybe her husband gets off on knowing others are seeing sexy pics of his wife. You never know what happens behind closed doors. 1
veggirl Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I mean dude, who the fk cares? From what you've described, bikini at the beach, sexy dress that is not slutty and doesn't show a lot of skin. She has cleavage, so what, she has big boobs. Some ladies can't help that they have cleavage you know. If she was dressed up in a cute dress for dinner with the girls or something and snapped a pic who cares. You worry about this stuff way too much. The "conservative" girl at work is just judgemental. 3
NeverDated Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Maybe she likes showing off the fact that she's a MILF...
Author irc333 Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 Anyways, there was some articles that I read about "Dressing Single" apparently, women who appear unapproachable is depending on how they're dressed. Of course if you're in sweats at a grocery store, but if you're dressed in a mannger that's not inviting to another single man in a more social venue and you're single, advice is given to how to "dress single" Ie, women tend to wear more of a V-neck to display the cleavage more (even slightly), and where things more form fitting. This woman is filling all the requirements of a woman 'dressing single' so it fools men into approaching her. Apparently, I RSVP'ed to a summer water event on FB ....and I saw this rather attractive woman, but in the profile pic she was wearing a hat and sunglasses, apparently I didn't recognize her from before, because she had changed her profile pic, so I made an attempt tom ake small talk with her through FB asking her if she's ever been to such an event before....becuse this was an annual event, and I didn't go to it last year...and used it as a reason to contact her. ...she did respond back, and I think she noticed I was a "mutual friend" of the woman friend I already knew. So figured, "Small world' right...and I was thinking "Wait a min, is this the married woman me and my female friend that she works iwth that is always dressing sexy in her FB photos?" Sure enough it was....I found out by asking her if she's married or single,and she said "LOL , yes, small world....yes..married" And Is aid, "Well,that's too bad...but he's a lucky man, loL" and that was that...stayed tight-lipped after that, but apparently some male friend invited her to the event.
pteromom Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 This woman is filling all the requirements of a woman 'dressing single' so it fools men into approaching her. A woman CAN dress in a way that makes her feel good about herself without it being about trying to "fool" men. I enjoy looking cute and even being flirty, and I am not trying to "fool" anyone - I just like myself and enjoy interacting with other people. 1
RedRobin Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I have an acquaintance like that. Very narcisstic. Although, her H kinda is too. He likes everyone telling him how beautiful his wife is. Problem is, she cheats on him with no guilt whatsoever. She wanted to come tell me all her stories, but I told her I didn't want to hear them. I told her to confess and get some therapy, and if she couldn't confess, then I really didn't care to know her.
Woggle Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I have an acquaintance like that. Very narcisstic. Although, her H kinda is too. He likes everyone telling him how beautiful his wife is. Problem is, she cheats on him with no guilt whatsoever. She wanted to come tell me all her stories, but I told her I didn't want to hear them. I told her to confess and get some therapy, and if she couldn't confess, then I really didn't care to know her. So you actually rejected a woman's friendship because she cheats on her husband? I know this is paranoia but I always get this feeling that women are secretly clapping when they hear about a woman cheating on a man.
NeverDated Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 ... And Is aid, "Well,that's too bad...but he's a lucky man, loL" And you now have your answer for why her FB is filled with those photos.
manup Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 It's attention seeking behavior. I think that's what OP was getting at. 1
veggirl Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 It's attention seeking behavior. I think that's what OP was getting at. No, the OP is constantly looking for little things like this to nitpick. His opinion on what is appropriate behavior for married women is absurd and evident in many of his threads. If this lady was a single lesbian he'd probably be posting about how could a lesbian post pictures that could be deemed attractive by a man?!?!?! Maybe we should all wear signs "single" or "taken" so as to not confuse the dudes of the world.
Leigh 87 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Mann, your are being ridiculous. A women is alloud to want to show off her body in a tight dress, bikini, or NON conservative clothing item. I DO - I am taken. Why? Because I am top heavy with big boobs, and unless I show my cleavage a little, if I cover it all up and wear high necklines, it looks like I am just HEAVY - it does not break up my top half to my boobs and my body. Basically - my body type is suited to lower cut, v necks. And, I like showing off my breasts. I am not a slut and have self respect - I have slept with TWO men in 7 years, and value myself highly.... good morals, kind, etc... I really could not care if people have less respect for me because I wear lower cut clothes - they are the ones who miss out on getting to knwo me, an extremely KIND, generous, fun girl. That said, I do not enjoy wearing tight dresses, I do not have the mid section for them to look hot. However, if I DID have a great stomach, u can bet I WOULD wear tight dresses when I went out to the pub with my friends. It is FUN to look good and show it off - even better when u meet up with your partner that night, and he is like " WOWWW" ... If you going to be judgmental, you will miss out on meeting great people, just because you think they are questionable due to what they WEAR. SURE - dressing TOOOOOO provocatively, for instance, wearing low cut tops AND short shorts, is too much. I agree - but I stick to low cut tops and LONG pants. In regards to being single.... I am very friendly with all people and dress to look good - to flatter my shape. Being open and friendly, and trying to look attractive, does not make me dubious....
Star Gazer Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Soooo, in other words, the OP thinks once you're married you're no longer allowed to wear v-neck shirts to the grocery store. Umm, no.
RedRobin Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 So you actually rejected a woman's friendship because she cheats on her husband? I know this is paranoia but I always get this feeling that women are secretly clapping when they hear about a woman cheating on a man. You are so full of it Woggle. Yes, I have rejected a woman's friendship because she is cheating or participating in helping a man cheat. More than once in fact. Not before I tried to get them to stop, confess, and repair their relationships though. If they are long-time friends of mine, I would seek to help them like I would a friend who all of a sudden developed a drug or alcohol addiction. However, if they refused to stop or seek help, I would have to let them go. I have high standards for friendship.
Woggle Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 You are so full of it Woggle. Yes, I have rejected a woman's friendship because she is cheating or participating in helping a man cheat. More than once in fact. Not before I tried to get them to stop, confess, and repair their relationships though. If they are long-time friends of mine, I would seek to help them like I would a friend who all of a sudden developed a drug or alcohol addiction. However, if they refused to stop or seek help, I would have to let them go. I have high standards for friendship. I am not full of it. I admit it is paranoia but those are the thoughts that go through my head.
FrustratedStandards Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 I never understood that either. Why get married if you're just gonna ask for other men's attention? Ugh. Stupid people. 1
123321 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 I never understood that either. Why get married if you're just gonna ask for other men's attention? Ugh. Stupid people. It's sort of one of those "I know it when I see it" deals, pretty hard to just describe. So I couldn't say if the OP is full of beans or has a point, but I have seen cases of it where it was just silly.
Author irc333 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Posted May 4, 2012 It's sort of one of those "I know it when I see it" deals, pretty hard to just describe. So I couldn't say if the OP is full of beans or has a point, but I have seen cases of it where it was just silly. Well, my friend told where she works, at some kind of work/social meeting/event ...there's chatter about her and, "Hey, have you seen Jill's Facebook pics? They're quite racey!" Even the parents of the children she teaches (in the 2nd grade) kinda take issue with it. Usually teachers can get fired or at least be taken aside by her supervisor and tell her what's up. Being a teacher is quite a high profile job.
Buck Turgidson Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 How dare she appear in public and teach school children without her burqa.
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