Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I'm 29 but dont look it. I started chatting up this girl at work, shes 20. I knew that. She didn't know I was 29. Some text message flirting ensued over the past day and I asked her on a date then she asked, how old are you. I told her. That was the end of that, lol.
dsw31 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Well considering the fact that she isn't even old enough to buy a drink... I'd say you're a creep. But whatever floats your boat...it's legal. 2
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 LOL, thanks. Ok next step is purchasing old white van with no windows. 5
wwwjd Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 should have gotten to know her a little better before jumping into the date. then she might not have even asked about age - if you get along. people needless fret over age. It's just a NUMBER, not a religion or political direction or ideal. 1
manup Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 LOL, thanks. Ok next step is purchasing old white van with no windows. What did you ask her to do?
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 I asked her to go out to lunch since that bests suits our work schedules.
Lil1 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I don't think you're a creep. Next time however it may be a good idea to be upfront about your age if you are looking to date much younger women, that way you don't waste your time if age is a dealbreaker as it was for this girl. 1
dsw31 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 should have gotten to know her a little better before jumping into the date. then she might not have even asked about age - if you get along. people needless fret over age. It's just a NUMBER, not a religion or political direction or ideal. Age is a lot more than just a number! The human brain doesn't even fully develop until the age of 27! That means, there is no way a person even knows about themselves if they are any younger than that.
manup Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Age is a lot more than just a number! The human brain doesn't even fully develop until the age of 27! That means, there is no way a person even knows about themselves if they are any younger than that. This is a silly quote, it's not like after brain maturity occurs you go through an introspective self reflection phase. 1
manup Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I asked her to go out to lunch since that bests suits our work schedules. You should have waited until she was 21 and in a vulnerable area like a bar. Something like hey it's your birthday let me buy you a drink or something like that.
dsw31 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 This is a silly quote, it's not like after brain maturity occurs you go through an introspective self reflection phase. Ok then Manup... I'd be willing to bet money on that
jennisfora Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 i don't think you are a creep, a creep would have lied and said he was 25 or under.
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 i don't think you are a creep, a creep would have lied and said he was 25 or under. HAHA, Good point.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 What do you mean by "that was the end of that.lol"? What exactly happend after you spouted your age?
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 What do you mean by "that was the end of that.lol"? What exactly happend after you spouted your age? Oh she said "I knew were older but not that old, I'm only 20". She does'nt think I'm a creep, she actually apologized for not realizing how old I was. We joked about it. I was just asking a general question.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 So she joked about it? That doesn't sound like it went over bad. So why did you cancel the date?
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 I didn't cancel the date. She blatently said 29 was too old for her.
dasein Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Make sure the van has plenty of soundproofing. Old Ice Cream trucks are also good. 2
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 You shoulda kept at it, dude. I woulda said something like, "29 is too old for you? Ha. That's what my last gf said. And she's almost 40. Age is just a number. As long as she's legally an adult, I don't see any problem with a relationship with a woman. I prefer women between 20-60. I find conversation is important when choosing women, not age. And conversation with you has been refreshing. Tell you what, I'll take you out on a date, no worries. All you have to do is provide me with stimulating conversation. If you still think I'm too old, we'll call it quits. How's that?" You gotta learn how to parry the conversation and lead them in the direction you want when speaking to women. Women will say a lot of things but do another. They'll say they don't want men to abuse them but be in abusive relaitonships. They'll say they won't have sex with a loser, but there are millions of women who had kids with deadbeats. Many women will say they won't date a man over 10 yrs older than they are, but many women marry much older men. I'm sure every woman who has gone with a much older man first thought, "He's too old." But they just needed persuading when it comes to getting into the relationship. Don't take a woman's answer at face value. 1
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 Make sure the van has plenty of soundproofing. Old Ice Cream trucks are also good. Your 3000th post. Cool.
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 You shoulda kept at it, dude. I woulda said something like, "29 is too old for you? Ha. That's what my last gf said. And she's almost 40. Age is just a number. As long as she's legally an adult, I don't see any problem with a relationship with a woman. I prefer women between 20-60. I find conversation is important when choosing women, not age. And conversation with you has been refreshing. Tell you what, I'll take you out on a date, no worries. All you have to do is provide me with stimulating conversation. If you still think I'm too old, we'll call it quits. How's that?" You gotta learn how to parry the conversation and lead them in the direction you want when speaking to women. Women will say a lot of things but do another. They'll say they don't want men to abuse them but be in abusive relaitonships. They'll say they won't have sex with a loser, but there are millions of women who had kids with deadbeats. Many women will say they won't date a man over 10 yrs older than they are, but many women marry much older men. I'm sure every woman who has gone with a much older man first thought, "He's too old." But they just needed persuading when it comes to getting into the relationship. Don't take a woman's answer at face value. I hear where you're coming from man. I guess each situation is different and depends on how strongly you really felt about there being a connection.
dasein Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 (edited) Your 3000th post. Cool. and such a really insightful one too, helping someone with their buffalo bill van lol. I think I'll stick at 3000 for awhile. Oh sh-t. Edited May 3, 2012 by dasein
Disenchantedly Yours Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 No, I don't think you are a creep. I'ts good that you were honest. And I am glad she forgoed dating a 29 year old man. Nothing personal against you. I just think 20 is too young to be dating someone almost 30.
Art_Critic Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I'm 29 but dont look it. I started chatting up this girl at work, shes 20. I knew that. She didn't know I was 29. She does think dating someone 9 years older than her when she is only 20 is a little creepy.. otherwise she would have said yes... I don't think you are a creep.. but hitting on someone young enough that you might have to meet the parents first is a bit young. At 29 you should know that a 20 year old is too young for you. 1
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 No, I don't think you are a creep. I'ts good that you were honest. And I am glad she forgoed dating a 29 year old man. Nothing personal against you. I just think 20 is too young to be dating someone almost 30. She does think dating someone 9 years older than her when she is only 20 is a little creepy.. otherwise she would have said yes... I don't think you are a creep.. but hitting on someone young enough that you might have to meet the parents first is a bit young. At 29 you should know that a 20 year old is too young for you. Don't listen kinda talk, OP. A 29 yr old man dating a 20 yr old woman is legal. Many people will say that kinda relationship is wrong. But I've yet to see someone say it should be legal. How can you say that kinda relationship is wrong but think it should stay legal?
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