Els Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 My observation, sadly, has been that summer seems to bring out all the insecurity in some women. I'm certain that the 'get that summer bikini bod!' ads that we get flooded with don't help either. I'm also not sure why the OP seems to think that 'wearing revealing clothing' is your 'chance at getting a bf'. IME, men worth being with aren't usually terribly interested in women who purposefully flaunt every inch of bare skin that they can, whenever they can. All that being said, I like spring/fall more. You don't need to bundle up in huge thick coats when you're out, but it doesn't look too out of place to wear a cardigan or fitted sweater or dark stockings. And I like wearing those. I don't think nice clothes should be all about showing skin.
zengirl Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I'm also not sure why the OP seems to think that 'wearing revealing clothing' is your 'chance at getting a bf'. IME, men worth being with aren't usually terribly interested in women who purposefully flaunt every inch of bare skin that they can, whenever they can. I thought he was saying your chance to dress up for your bf. Stupid skimming. Anyway, I agree. Most guys worth dating don't want a girl to look too revealing. I mean, I'm sure they enjoy looking at legs in the summer, etc, but generally speaking someone who'd come after you when your legs are out in August who'd never look twice at you in January just because you're in a pair of jeans is not really BF material. 1
Els Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Eep, I thought the OP was a single lady. All the confusion..
zengirl Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Eep, I thought the OP was a single lady. All the confusion.. I don't know, but it does say "chance to get a BF" so I'm the one who read it wrong! I actually have never gotten a new BF in the summer in my whole life, fwiw. Every other season, but never summer.
wwwjd Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 Wow, I haven't even had the opqortunity to try tantric. Have wanted to though. Unfortunately, you'd have a 3 to 6 month wait while we slowly grew in love before getting physical. Meanwhile, (to pretend to stay on topic) keep wearing your fun summer clothes and teasing all the boys, and I'll dig out my pink/plaid long shorts! (Actually, I'm more into the cleaner style shorts or the typical cargo ones)
tigressA Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I wear more dresses and skirts when the weather is warm, but they're not too short or low-cut. If I wear shorts they'll be more like Bermudas than hot pants. I do like wearing more revealing tops--low-back, or slightly cropped; I pair them with loose-fitting linen pants. I like showing my back and stomach more than my cleavage. I think cleavage is overrated.
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