irc333 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Someone in the "Confidence/Insecurity" post stated "If I met you in person, I would know. You wanna know how? By all the stuff you don't do. Flirting with women, asking a woman out directly, initiating kissing and other physical intimacy...those are the things that confident, secure guys do." Thing is, if being put in the friendzone means (yeah sorry, it's another FZ post, lol...tricked ya! lol) Like recently, I had a woman tell me to not "try " anything wiht her, because she's just looking for "friends" for now, and not serious about dating. So does that mean, ignore that...and just go in for a kiss...DISPLAY that you're confident? Not sure if thats a good example.
somedude81 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 LOL! Deception. I don't know if doing something somebody obviously doesn't want you to do is a sign of confidence. Sounds like arrogance and simply not respecting them.
Author irc333 Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 LOL! Deception. I don't know if doing something somebody obviously doesn't want you to do is a sign of confidence. Sounds like arrogance and simply not respecting them. LOL...well if you always get FZ'ed, heck, display your "confidence" anyways, right?
Emilia Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Like recently, I had a woman tell me to not "try " anything wiht her, because she's just looking for "friends" for now, and not serious about dating. So does that mean, ignore that...and just go in for a kiss...DISPLAY that you're confident? Not sure if thats a good example. Probably not the best example. You are supposed to respect what the other person wants/says so if she is after friends and you are after more, you should move on. You need to display confidence towards those that are receptive to it, ie those who don't shut you out before you had the chance.
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