lilprincess Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I know my boyfriend since we were in Grade 1 and we "dated" at some point wen were still in Primary school. We were both crazy about each other. But we changed of schools and lost touch. There was one point we ran into each other but we were both seeing other people around then. Years have gone by and i went abroad for studies and while i was away he got in touch with me asking if he will ever have a chance wenever ill be back in the country. I was shock but loved the idea as i was feeling i still had feelings for him. But i was also scared becoz i had a pretty bad lovelife and didnt want to get hurt anymore. Ive been back in the country for a while and we got back together.. But soon i have to head back abroad for work and he knew everything from the start. The idea that i have to leave him behind kills me every day as it get closer to my departure day. A few days ago hes been starting to show(unwillingly) he is hurt as well(eventhough he wont say that he is but i know him too well and can see in his eyes that he is hurting).. I myself have been hurting sooo much as we get closer to my time to leave but im forcing myself to stay strong for him. Seeing him sad and not the same kills me sooo much.. Im hurting ssooo much seeing him like that and i sometime feel i should give up on my career and dreams to be with him(which he doesnot want me to do).. Hes hoping to join me there soon but i cant stand the thought of how we are going to do being apart for God knows how long it will take to get him there.. I really need some advise on what i can do to make him less stress about it. Im fearing sooo much of wats going to happen while im gone. Like i know him well and trust him a lot and i know he will never cheat or lie to me. But i really need some advise on how i can make our last few days together go well.
HeavenOrHell Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 How long will you be apart? Start making plans about your next visit already, even if it's months away. Work out how much communication you both need to make this work, can you skype? You can still share your lives daily, even when apart. Sounds like you have an end in sight, so you're half way there already Just make the most of your last few days together and try not to worry about the future, be happy these last few days, not sad, enjoy it, cherish it, you won't be apart forever.
Author lilprincess Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 Well im suppose to be working abroad for 3years.. But we are hoping he will be able to join me there as soon as he can(possibly within a year. Time he gets accepted in a school and get all papers ready) We have gotten soo close the little time we've been dating. He would come see me before he goes to work and whenever we are home we will be Skyping. He doesnot have a flexible-hour job so that scares him that we might not have time to talk due to the time change and his odd working hours. Its going to be so difficult as we communicate soo much and see each a lot these past few days. He had an alcohol problem before and im really scared that he might fall in that again once im gone.
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