Me...IamMe Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Long story short. My girlfriend came back after a couple months on a rebound. We were together five years. April 4th I went to her house and we talked. She was still with rebound. Conversation ended up where I asked her if she had slept with him and she said no. We ended up having unprotected sex. Twenty minutes after she admits to having sex with rebound. I being angry for for just having slept with her unprotected after she had lied to me, punched a hole three holes in the wall and told her to have rebound fill those holes. I had never been betrayed by someone I loved before. I know I shouldn't of punched the holes. Now as of a week ago we have been trying to work out our problems. Today she brings up the fact I punched her wall and she said I had no remorse. it was heat of the moment. I have never been violent to her. She says she knows she did wrong by screwing dude, lying to me, then screwing me unprotected,then admitting it. But says I did wrong by punching a hole. Am I lost or are these not even close to the same thing. Yes I do know I shouldn't punch holes and said I'm sorry, I just never felt that emotion before. God help me, I love this woman. What would any of you done in that situation. If I'm wrong let me know. Thanks
Gulf-Delta Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 You are human. Did you over react? Probably. Is it justifiable? Yes.
DesperateDad Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Crazy things can be said and done in the heat of the moment that can never be taken back. With that said, this seems salvageable if you truly both love each other. I'm not the most experienced poster around here, but I would recommend finding a good pro-relationship counselor who can help you two work things out. Good luck!
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