kokie Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 My husband and I recently divorced. We are still very good friends and I am still good friends with my sister-in-law and brother-in-law. My ex-husband has already started dating again and is already talking about marrying the woman he is seeing. I had been around my ex brother-in-law's best friend (i'll call him Matt)on multiple occasions before my husband and I separated, and we had an instant connection. My sister-in-law even suggested that Matt and I had a fling going on before the separation, however, nothing was going on. Since my divorce Matt and I have actually been talking and have even spent a few weekends together. Things seem to be getting more serious and we are ready to stop sneaking around. Matt has been very worried about jeopardizing his friendship with my ex brother-in-law, because they have been friends since childhood. I am just wondering if anybody has suggestions on how to approach the situation, keeping in mind that neither one of us want to lose our friends.
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