lovers Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 feel like texting my ex "i saw a movie that reminded me f u. i hipe all is well. take care .
geegirl Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 This was the ex that you said was cruel, selfish and left you for a friend? Yes, you should text her and let her know that even after she stepped all over you, you want to send her good thoughts and a smiley face. How about reminding yourself of her ill-treatment of you? Maybe remind yourself as well that dignity is of importance. 1
Gulf-Delta Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Don't do it bro. My ex left me on ok terms, and even I wouldn't do that. If your ex was a bitch about it (as geegirl suggests), don't do it.
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 i havent yalke to er in so long. kinda feel bad cause she called me twice and texted for hw question and i just ignored her :/.
geegirl Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 i havent yalke to er in so long. kinda feel bad cause she called me twice and texted for hw question and i just ignored her :/. She didn't feel bad when she was selfish and cruel and left you for your friend. Stop this. Dignity and self-respect. Stop feeling bad for those that never felt bad for you. Give when it's deserving. This matters to you because you still have feelings for her and you're melancholy and not because you feel bad. Even more reason not to text. She's with this other man. Let them have their relationship. She's moved on. You need to do that as well.
Chi townD Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 How Ironic, Last Saturday I watched a movie that reminded me of my Ex....The Bride of Frankenstein... 1
Art_Critic Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 When you go thru a breakup there is always a movie or song that will remind you of them.. it's the sucky part of a breakup and it does get better.. time heals all.. and NO don't text her that.. all it will do is give her an ego boost and you will fell like shiot. 2
LasVegasGuy Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Same here buddy, I had went like 7 months without thinking about my ex or missing her, and then I seen American Reunion (like the 7th American Pie) and then it started to remind me of ex relationships, I thought about a few, but only 1 stuck out. It just reminded me when I was a hopeless young man wanting to marry and settle down with everygirl I ever loved.
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 **** i saw her fb wall and saw that she met with his mom. i feel so tempted to text her right now.
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 i just feel like biting the bullet right now and texting her. ive ignored her for 4 months now
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 guys post something i feel sooooo tempted to text her.
Gulf-Delta Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 guys post something i feel sooooo tempted to text her. Tell us, what is the benefit of texting her? What is your goal, with said text? What are your expectations of sending it?
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 i couldnt elp it and texted her "i saw a movie and it reminded me of us. i hope all is well. take care." i dont know what i want from it, ive beeen ignoring her for awhile and feel bad. if she says nothing thats fine.
Gulf-Delta Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 i couldnt elp it and texted her "i saw a movie and it reminded me of us. i hope all is well. take care." i dont know what i want from it, ive beeen ignoring her for awhile and feel bad. if she says nothing thats fine. I'll tell you exactly what you wanted. You wanted to her respond with "aww" or a smiley face or something. I know because I used to do the same ****. 1
Gulf-Delta Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 i dont want us to hate each other Unless you did something bad like beat her, or cheated on her, she doesn't hate you. If you said some nasty things during the breakup, the only thing you should be texting is an apology, if anything. If you already did that, she knows you're sorry, and doesn't hate you.
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 i wasnt that good of a bf to her. but theres was so much drama after the break up where she wanted me back but i refused. and after i wanted her back and she refused. i cant tell u if i wanted her to respond with aww or something, i just wanted to talk to her catch up. its been so long.
Gulf-Delta Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 i wasnt that good of a bf to her. but theres was so much drama after the break up where she wanted me back but i refused. and after i wanted her back and she refused. i cant tell u if i wanted her to respond with aww or something, i just wanted to talk to her catch up. its been so long. It seems like, if it hasn't already been said, you need to man up, and apologize for the way you behaved. I get what you're going through. I feel the same way nearly everyday. But then realize she wanted to be away. Realize there isn't really much to be gained from texting her.
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 i apologized long time ago, she was really messed up after the break up. i tried to handle it well. i didnt treat her to well in the relationship but what she did after was messed up. but after its been so long i dont want us to hate each other.
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 so i texted her and havent gotten a response. i expect her not to respond an i am okay with that. for 1) i rid myself the guilt of being a dick and ignoring her attempts to contact me 2) i dont live with the regret about trying to be friends cause i sent her a text and opened up after all these months. its up to her if she wants to respond, at least i tried and wont live with the idea of what if.
Art_Critic Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 How long do you think it is before you send ANOTHER text ? You just gave her an ego boost at your expense.. was it worth it ?
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 i wont send her another text cause i know the outcome if i do. ill just leave it at that. if she ever wants to talk the line is open for communication
geegirl Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 i wont send her another text cause i know the outcome if i do. ill just leave it at that. if she ever wants to talk the line is open for communication Next time you have an urge or something reminds you of her, come back and read this thread.
Author lovers Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 and no it was prob not worth it and i slightly regret it. felt like i really needed to do it at the time. i hope sending her "i saw a movie that reminded me of us. i hope all is well. take care." didnt make me look that bad.
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