bamaguy20 Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 tomarrow is the two year anniversary of the first time my girlfriend and I kissed..........havent spoken for almost 2 months minus her contacting me twice.....the no contact thing is going pretty good......havent had any real urges.......but for some reason i reallly really want to write her an email just telling her that i havent forgotten about her, etc...nothing sounding too desperate or anything of the sort........for those who know my story, shes going out of town on wed, down to alabama for 5 days, to go to some concerts with those ****ing losers she met down at school this past semester...mabye this is partly why iw ant to talk to her...should i send her the email..shouldnt i? i dont know what to do...
Sundaymorning Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 you might want to move on. you will find that when you do, you will care much less and worry much less about her. quite amazing how it works actually. on with the old, in with the new!!!
Author bamaguy20 Posted June 22, 2004 Author Posted June 22, 2004 i know moving on is best..this no contact has helped a lot..........but from the things shes said..and the things ive heard her say in the past right when we broke up.....i feel there is a future for us..i dont want her to think i totally dont care whatsoever and then forget about me competlly.
ntovrhm Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 I know it probably shouldn't make a difference, but it might. There's nothing wrong with slowly keeping in contact if they reach out to you, but it shouldn't just be from you yet, or if it is just because she is going down to the concerts with those people, its probably not the right reasons.
Author bamaguy20 Posted June 22, 2004 Author Posted June 22, 2004 wellll........i sent her an email and contacted her for the first time in a month and a half without her contacting me first........i feel alright...i kept the email short and simple..didnt sound desperate or asked for her back or anything..just let her know that i haven't forgotten about her even though we dont talk anymore....ill keep you guys updated on her reply if any, and what i should make of it.....
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