Randybrandt Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 I have been in NC since April 16th and thankfully haven't heard one peep from the wench. How long has everyone been in NC? I know mine is a small number but I am staying NC this time. My ex's birthday is in 2 weeks and my mates say Randy are you going to wish her a happy birthday? I had to laugh and say no! I know it's a polite gesture but she is my crazy ex the one who visited me at work the one who treated me like rubbish polite or not I should not wish her anything and it is breaking NC and if I want to be sane I must not wish her a happy birthday. Sorry for chattering...... Just wanted to check up on everyone's NC:bunny:
snug.bunny Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Based on last LTR, around 8 years, which was when we broke up. He left a message a couple years back, a "hi how are you, something reminded me of you" type message. I returned the call via text, "Hi I'm good, hope you're doing well, thanks". Life goes on.
Radu Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Longest one is 4yrs of NC, but i'm not counting here girls i've gone on dates during college and never looked back (i guess that could be as high as 8yrs). Once i get into NC it's easy for me to maintain it, i think i'm too good at compartimentalizing.
ThatDudeXO Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 I was nearly 2 and a half months NC and she broke it by giving out breadcrumb type messages so I told her to go away. Now 1 week NC! Woop! I would send a msg saying "Happy Birthday x" and that's it really.
JohnP82 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 I haven't said two words to her since she called me crying and saying she was confused and unsure of what she wanted back in October. That was a month after we officially broke up. Of course I knew what she was confused about; whether or not to date the guy that she feel for while in a relationship with me. She's tried to contact me a couple of times since then I imagine in an effort to open dialogue, but I don't really have an interest in talking to her, let alone allowing in any way back into my life. I hear they're still together, so good for them.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 4 days. I don't expect to hear from him until the end of the summer when he comes back fromplaying baseball. We broke up on the worst terms he didn't even gave me the decency to say goodbye so I told him to **** off.
Philosoraptor Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I don't know and I don't keep count. It was from whenever I finally got my house signed over.
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