minx33 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Hello- I am very new to all of this. I have been with my husband for 4 years. We have been married for about 4 months. I admit, I totally pushed for the engagement. However, he pushed to get married right away, so we got married 1 month after being engaged at the courthouse. We were going to have a ceremony later, when we had some money saved. We have moved across the country twice, together. I love him more than anyone in this world. He says he loves me too, but he thinks he was not ready for marriage. He left me two nights ago. Says he needs some space. That he has not been giving me 100% and that he can not come back to me unless he finds away he can. That he has been trying so hard, but that this is the only thing he can think of because we were not working. He suggested and I agreed to go to MC. We have an appointment on Monday, but I feel like I am dying. Please help me:(, by the way I am 33 and he is 31.
january2011 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 I'm so sorry you're hurting. Perhaps it was rushed. Perhaps it was not. You've already spent four years with each other. In my opinion, that should be long enough to establish that you want to spend the rest of your lives together, especially since you're both in your early 30s. Let's see how the MC session goes.
jphcbpa Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 agree with Jan...at least he suggested MC. that is a great starting point. more will be revealed.
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