Katerose Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 I was dating my ex bf for 2 years. We broke up a month back. He is already with another girl who was his 'Good friend' even when we were dating. Now the problem is that we are in the same class in college and avoiding them is difficult plus we cannot change our class. I know I should behave normal but my blood boils when i see them together then i become upset. i just cant seem to control that. Any suggestions,website of any help will do.
Chi townD Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 How big is the class? I'm a college professor and my room has over 100 seats. I would strongly suggest that you ensure that they are seated behind you. When you enter into the room just focus on your seat and take it. Dont' let your eyes roam around the room. After the class, just leave....do not pass Go, do not collect $200....just get out of there. Make sure that next semester you get a different schedule. 1
budley12 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 i understand how you feel. my ex and I were together just under 3 years and we lived together in the dorms on campus every year. It is very hard. Especially when you see your ex with the new person. I am still trying to figure out how to deal with this but so far this is what I have done: Avoid -take different paths that you think your ex will not go down (but don't make this an obsession because if you do see him it will make it worse) Smile -walk around campus with a big smile on your face so that if your ex does run into you, you will look your best and not sobbing over him Stay NC -my ex is a 3minute walk away and it would be so easy to see him, however it would just bring up more memories and hurtful feelings since we can't be together In your class -try what Chi suggested but if you do run into your ex I would try and stay civil. When I run into my ex I still ignore and try not to make eye contact, but if you are able to be civil and just smile and say hi, I would recommend that. ***best of luck to you. I know how hard this can be. My ex and I shared all the same friends and now I have noone since being friends with everyone was too painful. The pain really hurts, but just think... summer is only a few weeks away!
Author Katerose Posted May 2, 2012 Author Posted May 2, 2012 budley, even we had the same group of friends. Iv broken up all ties with them. One thing i would like to tell u if u cant make friends there join some classes wateva u like. Iv joined various groups etc and trust me iv made some awesome friends way better than them *******s..
budley12 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 budley, even we had the same group of friends. Iv broken up all ties with them. One thing i would like to tell u if u cant make friends there join some classes wateva u like. Iv joined various groups etc and trust me iv made some awesome friends way better than them *******s.. good advice. I have been trying to branch out but it is still hard. Our group of friends were very tight for around 3 years. So many memories... But I guess everything comes to an end. Change; the only thing which never changes.
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