Sophia12345 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 LpToday I i did it. I broke no contact and it had only been 1 week I know ridiculous I just simply text him saying "I miss you like crazy" u got a reply saying "man up:p nah just kidding I miss you too what are you doing" we exchanged a few texts and I feel better for doing that. Just want any thoughts as to this - am I feeling like its Okay for that as I have it in my head he is returning he's having his so called gigs out burst in the sense he just wants to chill with friends 24/7 CBa for the hassle for a gf but he said himself he knows this is just a stage I had my own friend stage a year back and We got thru it I'm just Hoping the same happens, naive?
Philosoraptor Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Hopefully the OK feeling doesn't fade away on you.
Jono85 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 u feel better b/c you're in denial about the breakup. and his response seemed more friendly than anything else to me. personally i would treat it like a real breakup/the end, rather than a phase he's going through.
geegirl Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 LpToday I i did it. I broke no contact and it had only been 1 week I know ridiculous I just simply text him saying "I miss you like crazy" u got a reply saying "man up:p nah just kidding I miss you too what are you doing" we exchanged a few texts and I feel better for doing that. Just want any thoughts as to this - am I feeling like its Okay for that as I have it in my head he is returning he's having his so called gigs out burst in the sense he just wants to chill with friends 24/7 CBa for the hassle for a gf but he said himself he knows this is just a stage I had my own friend stage a year back and We got thru it I'm just Hoping the same happens, naive? You feel okay because you just gave yourself a little fix. It's just temporary. In another week you'll need another fix, and break NC. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Author Sophia12345 Posted May 2, 2012 Author Posted May 2, 2012 I'm litterally living in denial and I know it. Why is this happening! Why can I do NOTHING to stop it I just want this whole thing to end! I know he will regret doing all of this he said he knows he will to but its still something he wants to do which I get I did thE exact same thing Im just SO SCARED he won't come back I can deal with feeling like this for however long as long as he returns and I hate THe uncertainty of that Like I want it so badly so it probably won't happen. Why me, why us we were amazing Ive never felt like this, I don't do feeling like this ive allways been THR type to just deal with anything not give it too much thought and just get on with life but with this I've gone THe complete opposite. I'm a mess
Philosoraptor Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Your issue is focusing on the uncertainty with him and not relying on yourself. Right now you need to stop worrying about him or any sort of relationship and learn to rely on yourself. Ground yourself and be certain about your life before you worry about having anyone else in it. I was the same way once and I made the decision to focus on myself and figure out where I wanted to go with my life.
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