Amy22 Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 I have read this board for a long time but this is my first post. You guys always give good advise so I am hoping you can help me. I am 22 and I met a guy at work who is 31. He was a resident doing a rotation at my doctors office. HIs rotation at my office is over so he no longer works there. He is an awesome person. I have never had so much fun with a guy and felt so comfortable. The problem is we rarely see each other. I know he is busy with going to school and doing rotations at other offices. We only see each other about once a week. And the only time he calls is when he wants to get together. I know he is busy so I don't expect him to come over all the time or call. But I would really like to hear from him more than once a week. Even if it was a 5 minute phone call on the way home from work. We have been talking now for about 4 weeks. If I tell him my concerns will I scare him away? I believe he is worth the wait if I know as we see more of each other he will contact me more but I don't know if that will happen. I just don't want to come on to strong and scare him away. He tells me he misses me when we don't talk and I believe him. Should I say something and if so what? Or should I just realize we are different where i like a closer relationship then he does and just move on? Thanks for any help you guys can give me I really appreciate it. Amy
Curt Posted June 21, 2004 Moderators Posted June 21, 2004 Amy, Being a young doctor, clearly he is a busy dude. Nonetheless, hunn, he has made it clear that he misses not talking to you too. Let him know that you understand that he's very busy, and don't want him to feel any undue pressure. Explain to him that you you really would love to chat with him more during the week ... that you really enjoy talking (and spending time) with him. Just be honest. If he is worth his salt, he'll understand the bond between you. If he backs off, perhaps he is not really ready to accept the affection you are so honestly offering. Curt
Author Amy22 Posted June 22, 2004 Author Posted June 22, 2004 Thanks for the advice you are right. I know he is busy and enjoys spending time with me. I just need to be a little more understanding.
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