What is one question you always wanted to ask the opposite gender?

[joystickd]

Mine is: Why argue about little things?

For example I am a nurse at a nursing home. I have to hear about the water pitcher on the med cart not being full. I just look at them like they are crazy because to me its stupid all they have to do is take a few steps and do it. Hell I do it. I work with 95% women so I have a lot of women tripping about little stuff.

 

This thread is meant to create a dialogue not a gender war. Please refrain from incendiary speech. None of the soapbox penis and vagina monologues here either. All of us have some question we want to ask

[joystickd]

can i stick my big dick in?

I meant questions that are non sexual

[irin]

sorry mine is sexual,

 

 

never understood what sex means to guys and their urges. i get it its nice, connecting, intimacy, bla bla. why do some men put over everything else in their live, its seems their existence is surrounding sex. i wish i could see it from mans view it truly puzzles me.

[Feelin Frisky]

sorry mine is sexual,

 

 

never understood what sex means to guys and their urges. i get it its nice, connecting, intimacy, bla bla. why do some men put over everything else in their live, its seems their existence is surrounding sex. i wish i could see it from mans view it truly puzzles me.

Sorry but it's hardly just "nice", "connecting" "bla bla". I left out intimacy because have sex is not intimacy--caring deeply about who your partner is and what they truly want is intimacy (in addition to sharing that about yourself). If you want a thumbnail of what sex is like for a hot guy (and I should think a hot woman too who knows how to get it), it's a catharsis of intensity that defies description. Forget what you see in porn (not to assume you have viewed porn) but the men seem almost casual in it like they are throwing off strings of spaghetti without much of a peep. Most of those dudes get paid to cum a lot and rarely show their faces or share anything personal about who they are or what makes their world go round. Real men and real women--at least the ones who have strong libidos, are orgasmic and the quality rocks their world, have this engine of joy that keeps replenishing itself and makes for drive to take each other to the very edge of ecstasy--the closest thing there is to a heaven in my book. I don't buy that there is any dumbass after life, so one should make sure to get every shred of fushizmo out of life. Perhaps some people are just short-changed by nature and/or nurture and see sex as "nice" but no big whoop. Well, watch Nature on PBS orAnimal Planet or w/e--everything else out there in nature kills to get it on. So it must be good even for hippos and lemurs. I hope you find someone that takes their time with you so you can find where the holy grail is that smacks your gob and tells you what time it is before your time on Planet Fu_k is up.

[dasein]

Why do you spend so much time looking in the mirror? is something going to change in the hours and hours you spend doing it?

 

And one more, how on earth does one person use -that much- toilet paper?

[Bob_Funk]

sorry mine is sexual,

 

 

never understood what sex means to guys and their urges. i get it its nice, connecting, intimacy, bla bla. why do some men put over everything else in their live, its seems their existence is surrounding sex. i wish i could see it from mans view it truly puzzles me.

 

I can only speak for myself, but from ages 16-22, the sex drive was overwhelming. Think about how horny you are when you're ovulating and in bed with a man you love. Now imagine feeling that way 24/7 for every decent member of the opposite sex, with no relief.

 

Nowadays, my sex drive is fairly tame. I suspect most guys who continue to obsess about sex past 25 are doing it mostly for psychological reasons, and not necessarily physical.

 

Another thing to keep in mind is that girls can get sex a lot more easily than guys can. And we all know the less you have of something, the more important it becomes.

[joystickd]

I can only speak for myself, but from ages 16-22, the sex drive was overwhelming. Think about how horny you are when you're ovulating and in bed with a man you love. Now imagine feeling that way 24/7 for every decent member of the opposite sex, with no relief.

 

Nowadays, my sex drive is fairly tame. I suspect most guys who continue to obsess about sex past 25 are doing it mostly for psychological reasons, and not necessarily physical.

 

Another thing to keep in mind is that girls can get sex a lot more easily than guys can. And we all know the less you have of something, the more important it becomes.

I'm 29 and still have that amount of horny like when I was a teenager.

[Leigh 87]

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And one more, how on earth does one person use -that much- toilet paper?

 

 

 

HAHAHA So it's not just ME!

 

Um I will try to answer? Um..... I just tend to be generous with the amoutn I rip off I guess? Geez, I don't know but I really do want to answer any question someone wants to figure out.....

 

Um. We like to clean ourselves extra good? LOL. Sorry really just trying to be honest and answer the question.

[dasein]

It's not just with respect to hygeine and cleaning oneself, I can go in the bathroom in the morning, full roll. Go back a few hours later and the roll is half gone despite I know for a fact she hasn't taken a dump, have dated several women like this. Are they eating it to get fiber? putting it in their shoes? stealing my tp and taking it home with them because they are out? what?

[Leigh 87]

Me: " so, do all women u find attractive, and who are amazing people ( you love being around them, they are everything you love in a person); does this always = eventually getting feelings towards them?

 

Guys and girls cannot really be friends a lot of the time, remember? Then you hear that there are very attractive people, who are great people, and yet have opposite sex friends with no feelings towards them.

 

 

Personally, I switch feelings on and off when I first meet; if they are attractive to me, and are great people, I will not let myself go getting excessively close and develope feelings, unless we are dating. I seam to be able to switch it off.

[johan]

Are there couches and flower vases in every ladies' room?

[Feelin Frisky]

Sorry for derailing your thread before. I don't think any one person can speak for their entire gender. So I don't have a question. Given my previous post, I could apparently ask one woman something that another would give a total different answer to. Look at Hokie's thread about a female responding positively of an offer from a strange--abeit handsome (Hokie's and expert on that btw) guy to "tongue-punch her fart box". I'm sure the poster I engaged above would not hop on that offer too quick.

[Leigh 87]

It's not just with respect to hygeine and cleaning oneself, I can go in the bathroom in the morning, full roll. Go back a few hours later and the roll is half gone despite I know for a fact she hasn't taken a dump, have dated several women like this. Are they eating it to get fiber? putting it in their shoes? stealing my tp and taking it home with them because they are out? what?

 

 

 

When I ... do a number to, I fold the toilet paper, and use a lot to clean myself extra, extra well. If I know we are going to fool around after I go to the toilet, I will jump in the shower, and wash both areas down there with soap ( organic natural type soaps that are totally healthy for your skin, with about 5 ingredients, of course:) )

 

 

When I do a number one, I guess I see myself just ripping the toilet roll off, you know? Now that I think about it, I just grab the toilet paper and tug it down, without any consideration about only taking what I need.

 

ANOTHER REASON ( for ME): when I run out of cotton pads, I use folded sheets of toilet paper for girly make up things ( I wear no heavy make up but I wipe my lips when they get dry and re apply lip balm,and wipe smudged mascara - two make up utensils I use)

 

.... Does it interest you, to know why a girl uses a lot of toilet paper? I am being honest, my father and b/f are like WOW you use all the toilet paper blablabla" and those are the reasons. Are you rivited? LOL.

[somedude81]

How come you don't like me that way?

 

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I've got a bunch more, but all it really comes down to is that.

[SmileFace]

Are there couches and flower vases in every ladies' room?

 

Yes and bottles of wine and caviar.haha

Most bathrooms don't have them, and I find it useless. However it may come in handy for the group bathroom breaks that women take.

But you guys get to see penises soooo, I think it is a win win

[Anela]

Are there couches and flower vases in every ladies' room?

 

So far, I've only seen them in two - one at Macy's, and the other at a health food store that also has a restaurant.

 

I was so surprised by the Macy's bathroom, that I took a picture. A couch, a loveseat, a few pictures, lamps on side tables, and a shop assistant tutting over water left around the sink.

[Anela]

I thought about asking something earlier, but then pictured a long thread, eventually being locked, and decided against it.

[Woggle]

I thought about asking something earlier, but then pictured a long thread, eventually being locked, and decided against it.

 

Me too. I had a question in mind but I didn't want to start a gender war.

[jobaba]

Dear women,

 

Quote:

Originally Posted by ghx

can i stick my big dick in?

 

I meant questions that are non sexual

 

 

Does it make me an idiot that I laughed at this really hard?

[johan]

So far, I've only seen them in two - one at Macy's, and the other at a health food store that also has a restaurant.

 

I was so surprised by the Macy's bathroom, that I took a picture. A couch, a loveseat, a few pictures, lamps on side tables, and a shop assistant tutting over water left around the sink.

 

"tutting"? Ha ha. I wonder if I've ever seen someone tut.

 

Maybe I have... Steve Martin comes to mind. "Funky Tut. Got a condo made of stona!"

[Star Gazer]

I work with 95% women so I have a lot of women tripping about little stuff.

 

If I worked with 95% men, it would be easy to attribute anything annoying my coworkers did to that of the entire male gender... that is, if I was closed-minded.

[Leigh 87]

How come you don't like me that way?

 

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I've got a bunch more, but all it really comes down to is that.

 

 

I literally can flip a switch; a guy who is worthy of a lng term partner only starts out as being attractive to me if I know it can work; if he is taken, I am taken or vise versa, and we meet, I do not develop feelings unless I start dating and getting that way with him.

lol, in real life I would date and get to know a guy, any guy, that did not repulse me physically. To me, guys become attractive after I date them and get to know them.

 

 

 

Really, though another question! WHAT are you guys THINKING, when you treat certain women like low quality booty calls, when they are nice women and cute, smart and etc?

SOOOOOOO many threads on LV Shack are about MEN, who treat girls like cr@p, it makes me think, WHY? IS it about hot chicks get treated like gold, but average or cute chicks do not get a LOOK in?

Poor hot girls, they must get tricked a lot, with losers and jerks who are hot but treat normal girls like dirt.

At least girls like me get the nice men who do not put on a show for the hotties:) haha.

[mesmerized]

SOOOOOOO many threads on LV Shack are about MEN, who treat girls like cr@p, it makes me think, WHY? IS it about hot chicks get treated like gold, but average or cute chicks do not get a LOOK in?

Poor hot girls, they must get tricked a lot, with losers and jerks who are hot but treat normal girls like dirt.

At least girls like me get the nice men who do not put on a show for the hotties:) haha.

 

Pretty much. Just read some LS threads, doesn't take long to figure it out.

[jobaba]

Really, though another question! WHAT are you guys THINKING, when you treat certain women like low quality booty calls, when they are nice women and cute, smart and etc?

SOOOOOOO many threads on LV Shack are about MEN, who treat girls like cr@p, it makes me think, WHY? IS it about hot chicks get treated like gold, but average or cute chicks do not get a LOOK in?

Poor hot girls, they must get tricked a lot, with losers and jerks who are hot but treat normal girls like dirt.

At least girls like me get the nice men who do not put on a show for the hotties:) haha.

 

???

 

I've never seen any threads like that on LS.

 

If anything, this forum is primarily comprised of a) women who are successful at and enjoy dating and have men to pick and choose from and b) men who are relatively bad with women if not downright incompetent.

 

I don't deny that men like that exist, but they usually aren't posting on internet dating forums. Go check the ESPN Message Boards. Countless threads about the ugliest and fattest woman you've slept with when drunk and they'll define the term 'slumpbreaker' for you...

 

A meetup between the men and women of LS would be one of the most awkward things ever.

[CarrieT]

Why do guys think the Three Stooges are funny?

 

I don't know any women who do....