Emilia Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 maybe there aren't enough people around with sad puppy dog eyes?
jobaba Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 CALL ME? I have to say, it was an eye opener when I first put up my dating profile. I hadn't even uploaded a picture when a guy started messaging me. He was -thin.- I've grown so accustomed to "fat women = die" that I was instantly reluctant to put up a picture. I probably would have straight away if he had been heavier, just because I find at least heavier folks tend to understand the whole situation. To my surprise, Mr. Thin has dated overweight girls in the past and had no issue with it. Sometimes people surprise you. I'm just as guilty of anyone else as looking at a guy and assuming his preferences. Generally, I assume most or all guys prefer thin women (and by 'prefer' thin women, I do mean they hate fat ones to boot), especially so if they're thin. That said, with my height and my build, I'm probably never going to weigh less than 150 pounds. I can't believe there are guys who call that 'fat.' I don't prefer overweight women, I just don't care that much about looks. I've actually never dated an overweight woman. Her personality has to be good though. Just the same as if she were hot.
verhrzn Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Maybe she turned you down because she got the correct impression you considered her very homely? Just because you're desperate doesn't change the fact that you weren't actually that attracted to her. You were just desperate.
Els Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 A ripped body might make up for some things, OP, but clearly isn't enough to make up for an attitude like THAT.
newmoon Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 i'm very slender and am usually attracted to either men with a similar slender build, or a very muscular build, so i can feel all girly and protected. i associate a slender/muscular build with fitness and health and want a healthy partner, so for this slender woman a huskier guy wouldn't have a chance. and neither would one with a negative attitude - perhaps work on that as well?
Mr. Savage Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 It's clear what OP is saying. He doesnt value physical beauty by the look of a woman's face. He values it by the tone and shape of her body. Sounds like a sexual thing to me. Is doggy your favorite postition where you dont have to see the face?
pink_sugar Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 You sound like my father who only wants tiny Asian women with a size zero waistline and not an ounce of fat on them. There's much more to a person than looks and a big difference between being full figured and obese. Skinny does NOT always mean healthy. I know plenty of people super skinny who pound cokes like water and people slightly overweight who work out each day and eat healthy. Being thin isn't always everything.
FitChick Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 (edited) There is nothing wrong with wanting something but that doesn't mean you will automatically get it. OP needs to go to medical school so he can create his Perfect Woman to his exact specifications. Either that or foot the bill for a woman to undergo surgery. Some cosmetic surgeons do that with their wives who then become walking advertisements. Edited May 2, 2012 by FitChick
Leigh 87 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 WHAT do u mean by " slender" though. DO u just mean not fat? Or, do u mean the tiny, 115 lbs at average height or LES range.... I am 125 - 130 lbs and 5 ' 6 with a large - medium build and am very curvy ( hour glass huge boobs) and I look slim to some guys, but I am not thin or skinny... Do u mean your a guy who likes skinny chicks? Or, just " healthy " and fit and not a huge build and like 140 +lbs?
phineas Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I believe he is talking about something that is known colloquially as a 'rat face'. really? I've only known really lean women to have that look with narrow heads.
phineas Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 WHAT do u mean by " slender" though. DO u just mean not fat? Or, do u mean the tiny, 115 lbs at average height or LES range.... I am 125 - 130 lbs and 5 ' 6 with a large - medium build and am very curvy ( hour glass huge boobs) and I look slim to some guys, but I am not thin or skinny... Do u mean your a guy who likes skinny chicks? Or, just " healthy " and fit and not a huge build and like 140 +lbs? To me slender = size 1 or 0. Women who brag about wearing a size 0 do it because they know their in the minority. For your body type the boobs & height throw off your weight from averages because you are slightly taller than most & bigger up top than most. I know a girl 5'8" 140 (yes she told me her true weight) that i'm helping to loose weight. She has a tiny fantastic ass & medium to smallish boobs but she quite smoking & got a little belly so i've been helping her calculate her calories. She's engaged so no love for me but even with the little belly i'd GF her up.
irc333 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I don't even know what that means. It sounds like a description a gymnast commentator would give while a gymnast did her maneuvers lol
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