drell Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 I'm 22 years old and just out of college. During my time at school, I spent a lot of time on my own. At one point I took off a year when I was experiencing some problems to cycle around the country. I was alone the entire time, but I've never been happier. When I was back at school, I became very committed to a few activities that kept me busy. I met people that way, and have made some very good friends, but I never had anything close to a relationship. I used to be pretty shy, but have come out of my shell a lot. Many would say that I'm a funny and outgoing guy. At the same time though, I have another side - a shyer and I guess you can say romantic side that people don't really know about. I've spent a good deal of my youth so far just trying to make peace with certain problems I faced a while back. Now, I want something more, but I'm having trouble finding it. I've never dated girls, nor do I really know where to start. I've asked some out over the years but none have ever accepted. I'm not so good at telling when a girl is interested in me. Sometimes I have some idea but it ends up not going anywhere. Now that I don't have school to meet people anymore, I'm not sure what to do or where to go. If I continue to be isolated for an extended amount of time, I might drop everything and go on another bike trip like before. Ok, I'm sorry for rambling, but I need a place to let my thoughts out. Thanks for listening, and any responses would be greatly appreciated.
Author drell Posted May 2, 2012 Author Posted May 2, 2012 Maybe, though cycling has always been something I like to do alone. Occasionally I'd go out with another guy or two but I'm not too interested in doing a club. I don't mean to be negative, but it's more of a solo thing for me. I do have other things that keeps me connected to others, so I don't necessarily need to rely on cycling.
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