aliii Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Just wondering, my ex was informally seeing this girl then he "left her" for me after a year of me and him been together I broke it off cause the relationship was just weird even though I loved him and he sworn he did love me too....when he beg me to get back together the last time and I said no he went back to the previews girl and she took him right away, now he talks to her the same way he did to me, same words, professing his love for her, etc, etc...is been 3 months since we bu and 2 months since he beg me to get back together.....isn't this weird?...I mean she knows he left her for someone else, and now they are back together like nothing ever happened....or maybe I didn't really knew him back then. ....me and him are in our early 30's and she is 21
Mr Scorpio Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 No. I would not say it is weird. He was probably very hurt when you left him, so he clung hard to the woman who took him back. It sounds like he is afraid of being alone. 1
Philosoraptor Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Are they happy? Possibly. Should it matter? No. The more attention you put on the ex the more pain you cause yourself and the longer it takes for you to heal. 2
flitzanu Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 are they happy? well, would you date someone if you weren't happy? seems counterproductive.
Mr Scorpio Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 If it meant not being lonely, and especially if it came with the benefit of sex? Yes.
Sing Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Yes.. but it doesnt always last long.. because some only do it so they dont have to deal with there feelings. 1
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