lso802 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Look up "Zyzz" he was a wow player skinny virgin kid til 18, then after he became good looking girls started drooling over him. I loved how he rejected girls like :you´r only 7/10 at best i don´t want my kids to drop 2 points in rating and you´r probably a whore for messaging random guys on facebook......but we can still be friends. Zyzz was above them. He was mirin' himself most of the time.
USMCHokie Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 No, the point is that sex made her physiologically feel the way she does about A. Have sex with B so that the two dudes are on equal playing fields.
joystickd Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 No, the point is that sex made her physiologically feel the way she does about A. Have sex with B so that the two dudes are on equal playing fields. The sex just sealed the deal. Guy A created kept the attraction and interest up and was able to follow the signs that led to sex. She more than likely will never have sex with Guy B as long as guy A is giving her some attention. The investment is there plus he has already demonstrated that he is an in demand guy
jobaba Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Hi, After breaking up with my ex-bf i was pretty much having fun but lately I start thinking about dating again. Now I realize I am always attracted by the same kind of guy. The wrong one. And I am trying to understand why and how I can break this pattern. So, for example, I met these two guys: Guy A: Went partying and slept together right away. He is hot, charming, a flirt, social butterfly, a player always surrounded by stunning girls, and much younger than me. Sex was just incredible but it is just that, sex. He leaves right after and never texts me the day after. We went out a few times but mind you, he does not give a ****. And I have a huge crush on him. Guy B: Friend of a friend. Last saturday we went partying, we went to his place and he made clear that I can sleep there and just cuddle. He walked with me under the rain in the morning just to find a cab, asked for my number, texted me the same day to say he had a great time and wanted to see me again. Added me in fb, texted me again today .. He looks like a good and caring person. There is nothing wrong with Guy B but i cannot help myself and like the other one. My friends tell me that I have to give him a try (in case he is interested, of course) but deep inside i know i am not going to lose my mind for him. And i really could for the other one. What is wrong with me ? Why do i also like the players and unreliable guys ? Thanks for your comments ! Pick whichever one you want. Just don't expect Guy B to be there when Guy A dogs you out and cheats on you or dumps you because he was using you temporarily for sex. He'll be long gone and have another woman hopefully, one that wanted exactly who he was in the first place. If I were Guy B and I read what you are writing, I would have no further interest in you.
TheSingleGuy Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 By any chance, Amy, do you consider yourself to be an alpha female???
JohnP82 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Please leave guy B alone so that he can find a woman that feels the same way about him that you feel about guy A. 1
somedude81 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Hi, After breaking up with my ex-bf i was pretty much having fun but lately I start thinking about dating again. Now I realize I am always attracted by the same kind of guy. The wrong one. And I am trying to understand why and how I can break this pattern. So, for example, I met these two guys: Guy A: Went partying and slept together right away. He is hot, charming, a flirt, social butterfly, a player always surrounded by stunning girls, and much younger than me. Sex was just incredible but it is just that, sex. He leaves right after and never texts me the day after. We went out a few times but mind you, he does not give a ****. And I have a huge crush on him. Guy B: Friend of a friend. Last saturday we went partying, we went to his place and he made clear that I can sleep there and just cuddle. He walked with me under the rain in the morning just to find a cab, asked for my number, texted me the same day to say he had a great time and wanted to see me again. Added me in fb, texted me again today .. He looks like a good and caring person. There is nothing wrong with Guy B but i cannot help myself and like the other one. My friends tell me that I have to give him a try (in case he is interested, of course) but deep inside i know i am not going to lose my mind for him. And i really could for the other one. What is wrong with me ? Why do i also like the players and unreliable guys ? Thanks for your comments ! Is this thread for real? It's an elaborate troll right? 1
USMCHokie Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 The sex just sealed the deal. Guy A created kept the attraction and interest up and was able to follow the signs that led to sex. She more than likely will never have sex with Guy B as long as guy A is giving her some attention. The investment is there plus he has already demonstrated that he is an in demand guy No, my point is, her feelings for A would not be as strong but for her having sex with him. Sex chemicals often trigger very strong emotional responses...
Michael Johnson Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Please leave guy B alone so that he can find a woman that feels the same way about him that you feel about guy A. I agree. It seems she pines for the hot guy who's just looking to rack up his numbers in the bed but wants to drag along the nice guy who actually has something going for himself.
carhill Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Why do i also like the players and unreliable guys ? My recollection is, from past threads of yours I've posted in, a marked participation in FWB relationships, which might have relevance to this question. Such dynamics attract and are pursued by a subset of men, generally not LTR/M-centric men.
stillafool Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 By any chance, Amy, do you consider yourself to be an alpha female??? I hope so because that's what it's going to take to land Guy A. The woman who gets him will make him work for it. She won't be easy.
Dafa Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Its important to tap into a womens primal urges.. Contrary to popular belief women act on their hormones as much if not more then Men they just cant be as blunt about it because its not as acceptable for women to say shes lookign for signs to make her want to animalistically **** you right away..but its there On a primal level in their brain if they look at a guy who they think will dominate them in the bedroom and do with them as they please banging the ever living **** out of them maybe stick their head in the toilet and flush it that turns them on..[maybe not the exact acts but u get my point] Being "nice" is not a masculine trait that turns women on in any way..Why do you think powerful jerkoffs or dictators do well with women? the power.. Women are turned on by our dominance power strength compared to them..they arent turned on by our "niceness" they dotn even really care for men to be nice accept to them otuside the bedroom..being nice reminds thme of thmeslves and will get them looking at you like a brother not a guy they want to pound them int submission.. I also want to add something to these attempts at understanding the inner subconscious drives! I have a theory the reason that women like the "players" is simply because they have an urge to "tame" them. They want to be able to say to themselves (and others): Hey, you see this guy? Hot stuff, right? Before me he was always the one in control, doing what he wanted, until I came along and I was the one who settled him! I am that good! It's a theory which i have explained to some lady friends and they didn't find it stupid, quite on the contrary.
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