lola83 Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 I have been dating someone for five months. At first things were wonderful. He would call and e mail all the time. After a month, things completely changed. He wouldn't call for weeks and when he finally did his excuse was and still is that he was busy. Just a week ago, we went out and things went great. He said to hang out the next day, but he never called. I have left him two messages, but he has not responded. Usually when I stop contacting him, he comes back. I know he recently separated from his wife and had to move back home with his parents. He's been having financial problems and other personal problems. He told me if I began dating anyone he wouldn't get mad because he is not giving me enough attention. I'm still holding to some hope things will get better. I've been strong enough to stay away and not contact him when he dissapears, but i just don't want to lose him. Friends say he is probably back with his wife and just comes back to me when they are having problems. I don't even know what to think anymore. I just want to get a hold of him and ask what is really going on. I just want an end to this if there is no hope of things getting better. Any advice? Thanks.
dawns19 Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 Sounds to me like your friends may be right... he may be back with his wife, the next time he contacts you, confront him about it, and ask him what's going on! Because if he's not back with his wife, he must be with someone... That line has gotten used on me so many times, it's not even funny! Guys do that alot of the time so they wont lose one of their girls, though, if they try to hide it, it all just comes out, so if he's hiding something from you, you'll find out what it is soon enough.. I wish you the best of luck with everything...
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