Imajerk17 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 (edited) (I guess this is sort of a reference to dsw's thread) Sunday I was walking around town when I saw this amazingly cute woman with her friend walking. So I went up and talked to her and her friend. Wow. She totally took the lead in flirting after I told her she was adorable and I put my arm around her (within 30 seconds of meeting). We then get to her car... "Give me your number" she tells me (!) Wait, what?? I was actually a little stunned. I was getting ready to tell her to give me hers. So I gave her my number and she texted me hers. We've been texting since. We have a date this Wednesday night. Edited May 1, 2012 by Imajerk17
Emilia Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Make sure you are prepared when she gets out the fluffy pink handcuffs 1
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 (I guess this is sort of a reference to dsw's thread) Sunday I was walking around town when I saw this amazingly cute woman with her friend walking. So I went up and talked to her and her friend. Wow. She totally took the lead in flirting after I told her she was adorable and I put my arm around her (within 30 seconds of meeting). We then get to her car... "Give me your number" she tells me (!) Wait, what?? I was actually a little stunned. I was getting ready to tell her to give me hers. So I gave her my number and she texted me hers. We've been texting since. We have a date this Wednesday night. Congratulations! It is a glory to find an easy woman when one is in need.
Necromancer Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Well done!, we all know most guys wouldn't do that. Are you very good looking ? because i have only got flakes from cold approaches.
dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Have fun Imajerk... You will have the time of your life, just don't get too attached to quickly.
Emilia Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Congratulations! It is a glory to find an easy woman when one is in need. I don't think her taking the lead makes her easy necessarily. She obviously liked what she saw. That doesn't mean she likes what she sees a lot of the time. That's the crucial difference.
Author Imajerk17 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 I don't think she is easy or anything. She just seems really direct. I'm not good with banter. Truthfully if a woman wants to do all the talking it's fine with me. All I know how to do is make the (physical) moves.
Author Imajerk17 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 I don't think her taking the lead makes her easy necessarily. She obviously liked what she saw. That doesn't mean she likes what she sees a lot of the time. That's the crucial difference. I think this is the case. I WAS direct enough myself to tell her that I found her adorable and to put my arm around her...
Emilia Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I think this is the case. I WAS direct enough myself to tell her that I found her adorable and to put my arm around her... Is she a little older? If I remember correctly you are in your early 20s
Author Imajerk17 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 Is she a little older? If I remember correctly you are in your early 20s I am well into my 30's. But I am young-at-heart. She is around 30 it seems.
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I don't think her taking the lead makes her easy necessarily. She obviously liked what she saw. That doesn't mean she likes what she sees a lot of the time. That's the crucial difference. The OP's description suggests that it was real easy to initiate positive contact with this woman. Otherwise, you are correct, maybe she is not easy. We will have to wait and see.
Emilia Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I am well into my 30's. But I am young-at-heart. She is around 30 it seems. Oh for some reason I thought you were 23, obviously mixed you up with someone else (not that you sound 23). That's cool. Two adults getting to know each other. Good luck. 1
Author Imajerk17 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 The OP's description suggests that it was real easy to initiate positive contact with this woman. Otherwise, you are correct, maybe she is not easy. We will have to wait and see. I am a hugger and a toucher. I've given women neck-massages a few minutes into a first date. It's just who I am.
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I am a hugger and a toucher. I've given women neck-massages a few minutes into a first date. It's just who I am. Good luck and keeps us posted.
Leigh 87 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I am that direct. I am 25. If I sense a guy is into me, life is short and you only learn from mishaps, so I just ask for their number if we areg etting along. Of course, I let them initiate a healthy number of call and texts but I definately make the first move if they do not already. It just feels natural to ask for what you want. The thing is, a great guy does not necessarily have the confidence to make the first move! I do not want to miss out on at least getting to know a guy I think is fun to be around, so why not just ask for a number, when they could just walk away otherwise? Or show a guy your confident? 1
ThaWholigan Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Gotta love direct girls who don't beat around the bush Give us an update soon..
wilsonx Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Have fun Imajerk... You will have the time of your life, just don't get too attached to quickly. haha, you and i both know he's screwed 1
Lil1 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Have fun on your date OP! Alpha females are awesome cause we cut through the chase and we know what we want & what we're about. Does not make us easy though Pierre. I really think you were born in the wrong century! 3
Author Imajerk17 Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 (edited) Update: We met. We greeted each other with a big hug. Then we went and got our coffee. And then as we walked out of the coffee shop, I took her hand, and we were walking hand-in-hand down the street. As we were snuggling and talking on the park bench, I found myself thinking that she is really a sweet and wonderful girl, and yet... I just wasn't feeling it, at least not to the degree that I wanted to. I couldn't put a finger as to why. I found myself feeling that she might make a great friend. I DID feel it a month ago, with a girl who rejected my advances. Crazy I know.... Maybe my screen name is really apt. Edited May 3, 2012 by Imajerk17
Pierre Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Or show a guy your confident? The issue with that sort of "confidence" is that it may be confused with "desperate".
PJKino Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 The issue with that sort of "confidence" is that it may be confused with "desperate". Or she knows what she wants and goes after it
kaylan Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 (edited) Congratulations! It is a glory to find an easy woman when one is in need. Haters gon' hate. Especially haters who adhere to archaic gender roles and stereotypes.Update: We met. We greeted each other with a big hug. Then we went and got our coffee. And then as we walked out of the coffee shop, I took her hand, and we were walking hand-in-hand down the street. As we were snuggling and talking on the park bench, I found myself thinking that she is really a sweet and wonderful girl, and yet... I just wasn't feeling it, at least not to the degree that I wanted to. I couldn't put a finger as to why. I found myself feeling that she might make a great friend. I DID feel it a month ago, with a girl who rejected my advances. Crazy I know.... Maybe my screen name is really apt. Eh sometimes theres no spark. It is what it is. Maybe give it time? Im surprised you guys were already hand holding and snuggling already. Edited May 3, 2012 by kaylan
RedRobin Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 The issue with that sort of "confidence" is that it may be confused with "desperate". no woman has ever come up to you and introduced herself to you? I agree that it has the potential for being over board... but wouldn't that depend on the venue?
Emilia Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I just wasn't feeling it, at least not to the degree that I wanted to. I couldn't put a finger as to why. I found myself feeling that she might make a great friend. I DID feel it a month ago, with a girl who rejected my advances. Crazy I know.... Maybe my screen name is really apt. Well, sometimes you get caught up in someone's enthusiasm and it doesn't work. At other times it does. Chemistry is a funny thing. Will you have one more date with her at least?
Pierre Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Update: As we were snuggling and talking on the park bench, I found myself thinking that she is really a sweet and wonderful girl, and yet... I just wasn't feeling it, Exactly! Every single time a woman comes on to me in a very strong manner I don't feel it either. Furthermore, she picked me. I rather be the one that picks who I want and go for it. In addition, we tend to value less the things that we easily obtain without having to do much work. Thirdly, I wonder if this woman has done this desperate act many times before.
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