Angelina Jolie Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 ive been going out with my boyfriend for about two months now, and my boyfriend is telling me that we will love eachother forever for the rest of our lives. the problem is that i dont even love him at all. He's not like all my other past relationships at all. He is very very shy. My past boyfriends would always tell me that they think im beautiful and they would do anything for me. My boyfriend right now wont even stare at me in the eyes. Everytime we look at eachother he would immediately just glance away. He wont even have a long conversation with me unless if i just keep talking and if i didnt we would just be in silence. All his friends tell me he acts this way because i intimedate him too much but i just think he's too insecure about himself. i really hate that in guys. i love guys who are confident and who arent scared to take chances and just be themselves. My boyfriend is nothing like that at all. Not only is he shy, he is EXTREMELY jealous. i mostly only have older guy friends and my boyfriend goes and tells me that he doesnt want me hanging out with them at all or they will take "advantage over me." so now i cant even hang out with anymore guys except for his friends that he trusts who wont do anything with me. and i try to keep him happy by not hanging out with my friends anymore and just him and his friends. if he even sees a guy staring at me while we're driving he would go and chase them down or tail gate them. i hate that so much. i tell him to stop but he just doesnt say anything and he just keeps doing it. the first time i met his and some of his friends, they all thought i was hot so then when he found out that they liked me, he just stopped being friends with them all together. So then his friends got really pissed off he chose me over them so they started to tell me so many things about him. like he's using me for sex because the first day i met him, he asked me to have sex with him and i didnt even know him. but of course i didnt. but now, i can see that he is kinda using me for sex. everytime i go to his house, we would just go and have sex. i havent even gotten an orgasm from him yet and we've had sex many many times. i dont think im even physically attracted to him. i see my boyfriend more as a really good friend. but i am so scared to break up with him. his friends tell me that once i break up with him, he will go crazy and hate everyone for months. they say he will get me back too probably by messing up my 65 shelby mustang that i love dearly. i know for a fact that he will do that and thats one of the main reasons i dont want to break up with him. i met three different guys last week who were a lot more attractive than my boyfriend and they actually gave me eye contact and they talked to me a lot giving me a whole bunch of compliments unlike my boyfriend ever did. i told them i had a boyfriend though but they said they would wait for me. i just dont know how im going to break up with him though because i can find much more better guys than him. i just dont know what to say. im thinking about just giving him some time to change, but he seems to be one of those people who you cant ever change. i do care about him a lot, and when i break up with him im going to be very sad. what should i do?!
Blah Toolz Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 I don't know how old you are... but why the hell did you even get into this relationship? You know you're being used for sex, he's overly jealous, and he doesn't let you have friends without flipping out? What is keeping you there?
red-rose-in-winter Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 You definitely deserve better. I agree with Blah Toolz ~ why are you even staying with him? If you don't even love him and you're not physically attracted to him, what are you getting out of the relationship? From your post, you sound pretty miserable. If it really comes down to it, you can get a restraining order to keep him away from you.
beautiful Posted June 23, 2004 Posted June 23, 2004 You sound like a littl girl who has no clue! Why are you making such a drama? Simply tell him it is over and move on! End of that! He has a right to know that you don't feel the same about him! You leading him on if you do anything else! Some food for thought; no one can love you after month! thats LUST honey!
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