tryinghard2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 its been 4 months since we've been seperated. his idea to leave. had a feeling there was some1 else he eventually admitted it was an amotional connection. i hurt at the thought of that but tried to remain friendly for sake of 3 kids, trying to do as much as possible as a "family". got too comfortable seeing him so much especially when he says lets go to counseling & move in with me. last week i dropped the kids off was gonna stay alittle. went to watch tv in his room and saw womens underwear on the bed! now im back to crying everyday cuz its confirmed he slept w/some1 else. i do not know how to get past the feelings i have & the constant thinking of if he's with her right now & the visual of them being intimate together. help! how do i make it go away?
tojaz Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 The only thing that makes it go away are time and space. Plenty of space! He can't have it all and thats what hes trying to do, have the family with you and playing with the OW. Time to set some boundries. TOJAZ
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