Hileywood Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 My Fiancee is kicking me out of my house, I have to be gone by Monday. We have been engaged for a little over 2 years and dating 3. She said that she has been holding it in for a while that she is not happy anymore. I told her she should have let me know before hand that way we could talk it out, but she bundled it all in and one night going to bed she told me. I caught my best friend and her out last night, (we broke up on Thursday), she lied to me saying she was going somewhere else. I should have seen it, I asked her if she had a crush on him before because she would act strange to him. I have never loved any one more than I do this girl. I confronted her today and asked her what was going on between her and my best friend and she lied about last night....I don't know what to do. Once I told my parents, they replied as to say they are getting a divorce as well....what a lovely day.
msrealdoll Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 Dang. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I really don't have any words of wisdom, except that old standard about time being the best healer. I hope it gets easier for you soon.
learnfrommymistake Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 Go read the threads on no contact, especially this one The lost guide to no contact, version 2 It can help. Read the threads to understand why. Also, instead of worrying and being sorrifull about the relationship (hard, I know) try to work on yourself for a while. Find some things about yourself that need improvement and focus on that for a while. You may just find that by improving yourself your relationship will also improve. And if not, you will still be improved. Good luck.
lady venus Posted June 22, 2004 Posted June 22, 2004 honey I am so sorry! It is so hard to write the right words to tell you, because really there is not. Each person has their own way of getting through difficult times like these. I myself am going through a broken engagement, and moving on. It is so hard. I have found that being with family members and close friends doesn't make everything all better, but in some way you find little tiny pieces of yourself that you think you are loosing. I just got back from my moms house, whom I really don't even get along with, but I left feeling a millimeter better. And believe me, that is better than where I was. I look like I got socked in both eyes with a baseball. But just that familiar comfort, and being able to be myself and really let go and sob and snot did some good. I don't know for how long, but for now some relief. So seek out your true family, friends or whomever. Because for that teeny tiny moment, you can remember where you came from, like when you were a kid. There is alot of wisdom there, especially if they have gone through similiar experiences. Sometimes that is all you need, and with passing time it DOES get better.
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