bson1257 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I was just wondering if a guy has to be in really good physical shape before a girl will consider going out with him.
Onlyjonley Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 No way. My boyfriend is probably 20-30 lbs overweight, and I'm still very attracted to him.
Thieves Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 In the reverse, does a woman have to be in top physical condition for you to consider going out with her?
ThaWholigan Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Don't think either gender has to be in top condition. Top condition is like athlete level . It depends on what you want though, what do you want your body to look like? Whatever it is, go for it
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I was just wondering if a guy has to be in really good physical shape before a girl will consider going out with him. It really does help. Women care more about looks then they would like to admit.
USMCHokie Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I was just wondering if a guy has to be in really good physical shape before a girl will consider going out with him. Yes, it is true. I have -8% body fat and can bench press a million pounds, yet girls will not flirt with me. 3
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Yes, it is true. I have -8% body fat and can bench press a million pounds, yet girls will not flirt with me. Only a million? Pft. The madder somedude get, the stronger somedude get. Somedude smash! 5
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Heck no! But it's good to look your best and be fit and healthy.
FrustratedStandards Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 If he wants a girl with equal physical condition, yes.
USMCHokie Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 If he wants a girl with equal physical condition, yes. Hmmm...is it common for a woman to be insecure about her own body if she happens to be dating an Adonis...?
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 If he wants a girl with equal physical condition, yes. And yet, that statement doesn't apply to women...
Lobouspo Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 If you have money, but are grossly overweight you can still score a hot babe. Looks do not mean a thing. If you are just a middle class stiff, better hit the weights and watch what you eat!
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Avoid being fat and go to the gym 3-4 times a week. Dress well at all times. Shower daily. Avoid old worn out clothes. Learn how to speak correctly. No need to be a high end athlete. 2
dollface07 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 you just have to have money, be funny, smart and at least have potential to make something out of yourself...if those conditions are met a girl can overlook a little bit of tummy on you
threebyfate Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 No one's forced to be anything they don't want to become. There are plenty of people who partner, who aren't perfect specimens of their gender. I'll even hazard to state that perfect specimens don't exist, particularly considering the subjective nature of attraction. But if you have nothing or not much going for you, by all means improve what you can. Even with improvement, doesn't mean you're entitled to anyone.
FrustratedStandards Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 And yet, that statement doesn't apply to women... How do you mean?
reallyhotguy Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 How do you mean? He's forgetting about all the average looking or out of shape guys dating hot babes out there. When he remembers how common that is he'll take it back. 1
JesseJames Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 It seems like the simple women like men that have plenty of things wrong with them. Mental, physical.... the dumber you are, the better. A normal, healthy, sane, smart, and well-raised women might look for similar. Tough to say. It's a bizarre and grey world, this. Just pretend that all women are globules of ever changing matter. First they are gas, then liquid, then something you've never seen before and shouldn't actually exist.... you get the picture. Understand this and you'll be all sets.
Els Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Well, people tend to be with other people who prioritize the same thing (of course, given the usual caveat of exceptions). So if you'd like a girl who cares a lot about being in 'top physical condition' herself, it would definitely be beneficial to you to be in 'top physical condition' yourself. Me, I just want to be generally healthy and want a guy who is the same. S'all.
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 He's forgetting about all the average looking or out of shape guys dating hot babes out there. When he remembers how common that is he'll take it back. All 2% of them? And that's just talking about the guys who aren't very rich.
darkmoon Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 not too perfect for me, i'm only an 8 or a 7 woman, so i feel scared of not being good enough, but have a good bust, but even so...
dasein Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 No, OP you don't have to be in the top 5-10% to -get- a GF, but to keep one and avoid misery, to have the same amount of control over dating and relationships that the average woman has, yes you do. There's a reason their periods attune when they are housed together. See if you can figure out why and there's your answer. If that's still unclear, go to a henhouse and count the roosters.
Emilia Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Hmmm...is it common for a woman to be insecure about her own body if she happens to be dating an Adonis...? Not insecure but I don't expect Adonis wanting to date me if I'm not in tip top shape
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