wilsonx Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Most of the real 'alpha's' I know are not disrespectful and don't tolerate disrespect. They have a healthy sense of boundaries and are very pleasant people. None of this peacocking and showboating around. Balanced, is the word I'd use to describe a real alpha. Interesting. I have stalked dsw's posts (shes my ls sub) and she has a healthy sense of boundaries, pleasant person, doesnt disrespect others and doesnt tolerate disrespect. She stated in very first posts her boundaries. Nothing wrong with peacocking and showboating. Just because you dont see it doesnt mean it doesnt happen. If a tree falls in the woods does it make a sound?
Pierre Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Why is the the so-called alpha girl constantly telling herself she is alpha. I would assume that means uncertainty and insecurity. This is strange because the most important attribute of an alpha is confidence. 2
Author dsw31 Posted May 2, 2012 Author Posted May 2, 2012 Interesting. I have stalked dsw's posts (shes my ls sub) and she has a healthy sense of boundaries, pleasant person, doesnt disrespect others and doesnt tolerate disrespect. She stated in very first posts her boundaries. Nothing wrong with peacocking and showboating. Just because you dont see it doesnt mean it doesnt happen. If a tree falls in the woods does it make a sound? Thanks baby
Michael Johnson Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 No...Wilson is right An Alpha woman gets what she wants but only submits to her man (as long as submitting to him still suits her) Incorrect. An "alpha woman" is not a childish woman with an entitlement complex.
Imajerk17 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 (edited) Well, here is the thing. I have a lot of experience with hair-pulling, domination, throwing her on the bed (just like daddy did for her when she was a little girl!), the rougher stuff. Ever smack a woman's azz in the office copy room and have it lead to an intense sex session? I lift weights and am pretty strong, so I had no problem supporting her while we were doing it standing up. She didn't find that out about me in the first date though. In fact, when we met, she thought I was a nice guy. I'm not bragging though, because we broke up in part (in BIG part) due to mistakes that I made in the relationship. And I went a while before sleeping with someone else (maybe because I came across as a nice guy?), so some stud I am. Meanwhile, I also think there are A LOT of guys who are into the kind of sex you want. Here's the thing though. I know enough to respect the woman's femininity and do this sort of thing BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. (Or in public, but in a way that no one could see. I'd be having a business conversation with a colleague and my left hand would be touching her intimately under the table.) dsw, there's a time and place for everything. I would tell a woman on the phone IN PRIVATE all the nasty things I want to do to her. Why keep it in private? Part of it is an issue of RESPECT. Anyway, I would never say that sort of thing to her on a forum. Why would I? It would take the fun away from it being "our secret"--another reason for keeping it in private. That said, all I have to go by is your posts on here, but going by those, I suspect that you are the kind of girl who gets off on a man acting dominant to the point of outright disrespect. And if he mixes it up with pure sweetness from time to time, and you are hooked. Maybe that is how you know it's love. (I recall you saying that you were in an abusive relationship for 11 years, right? That doesn't make you a bad person or anything, but it does say something about you and your filters. Why did you stay so long?) I'm saying that you probably don't really know what a good guy for you is. Edited May 2, 2012 by Imajerk17
Author dsw31 Posted May 2, 2012 Author Posted May 2, 2012 Well, here is the thing. I have a lot of experience with hair-pulling, domination, throwing her on the bed (just like daddy did for her when she was a little girl!), the rougher stuff. Ever smack a woman's azz in the office copy room and have it lead to an intense sex session? I lift weights and am pretty strong, so I had no problem doing it standing up. She didn't find that out about me in the first date though. In fact, when we met, she thought I was a nice guy. I'm not bragging though, because we broke up in part (in BIG part) due to mistakes that I made in the relationship. And I went a while before sleeping with someone else, so some stud I am. Meanwhile, I also think there are A LOT of guys who are into the kind of sex you want. Here's the thing though. I know enough to respect the woman's femininity and do this sort of thing BEHIND CLOSED DOORS. (Or in public, but in a way that no one could see. I'd be having a business conversation with a colleague and my left hand would be touching her intimately under the table.) There's a time and place for everything. I would tell a woman on the phone IN PRIVATE all the nasty things I want to do to her. Why keep it in private? Part of it is an issue of RESPECT. Anyway, I would never say that sort of thing to her on a forum. Why would I? It would take the fun away from it being "our secret"--another reason for keeping it in private. dsw, all I have to go by is your posts on here, but going by those, I suspect that you are the kind of girl who gets off on a man acting dominant to the point of outright disrespect. And if he mixes it up with sweetness, you are hooked. Maybe that is how you know it's love. (I recall you saying that you were in an abusive relationship for 11 years, right? That doesn't make you a bad person or anything, but it does say something about you and your filters. Why did you stay so long?) I'm saying that you probably don't really know what a good guy for you is. I'm not saying I would allow a man to disrespect me in public.I am just having fun on an anonymous forum.This is behind closed doors. And I see where you're coming from but... to let you know why I stayed so long in an abusive relationship? Because I was a kid(17 years old) when I met that guy.I hated him after about the 5 year mark & had to carefully plan my escape.I did it in a way that would be the safest possible outcome for me & my family.
Imajerk17 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 (edited) Nevermind.... You've heard of the expression about silent waters running deep and loud waters being shallow? Edited May 2, 2012 by Imajerk17
M2155 Posted May 2, 2012 Posted May 2, 2012 Please don't take Imajerk's advice M2155! Trust me...we've both put ourselves out there enough.Now it's time for you to NOT drive yourself nuts wondering! Let it go... If he is interested, he will let you know. . Lol, no I know (I already asked my guy and I already know), I just thought this was a pretty good line for the scenario.
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