Author dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 What makes you so sure it was a rejection? Was it because he didn't say 'Hey I think you're hot' instead? It's definatley a good sign as in it does sound like he's interested. But, it does make him sound like a total nice guy. So are non alpha males your preference? What is it that you like about them? Yes; I would say they are my preference. I like the confidence that comes with them & I'm an alpha female
ascendotum Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Yes; I would say they are my preference. I like the confidence that comes with them & I'm an alpha female really? Why dont dont you go for alpha guys then, and double your confidence quotient in your men. You'd even get a dash of arrogance as well.
Author dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 By showing interest in him, initiating conversations without hitting on him hard and trying to learn what he is about. He isn't just a penis with a man attached to it, he is a human being. You will do yourself a favour long term as well if you treat your object of desire as a person as opposed to some robot who is supposed to jump into bed with you just because you expressed your desire. Actually, we do have nice innocent conversations & I have learned things about him. I'm just blatently telling you guys how sexually attracted I am to him. Why can't he just be a penis with a man attached to it?
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Yes; I would say they are my preference. I like the confidence that comes with them & I'm an alpha female Many so-called alpha male and females are really very insecure and hence resort to an alpha type behavior as a compensatory mechanism. A true alpha does not need to be loud or aggressive when interacting with others or trying to date.
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Actually, we do have nice innocent conversations & I have learned things about him. I'm just blatently telling you guys how sexually attracted I am to him. Why can't he just be a penis with a man attached to it? If this is all about sex then tell him you want to sleep with him.
gibson Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Actually, we do have nice innocent conversations & I have learned things about him. I'm just blatently telling you guys how sexually attracted I am to him. Why can't he just be a penis with a man attached to it? Give it up... Most of these men here have bought into and subscribe to the whole pu55ification of man thing. Essentially, they are women with a penis. Even after years of being this way and hundreds of failures later... They have yet to connect the dots to realize all that happens with being a pussified man is getting you "friendzoned" or treated like a women's gay best friend. That's okay... Means there is plenty more for the rest of us Alpha males.
Author dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 really? Why dont dont you go for alpha guys then, and double your confidence quotient in your men. You'd even get a dash of arrogance as well. I have always had alpha boyfriends.Just trying something new this time.
Ross MwcFan Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Yes; I would say they are my preference. I like the confidence that comes with them & I'm an alpha female Hmmm, surely non alphas are less confident than alphas?
Michael Johnson Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 If you're still pining for your ex, then the good thing to do would be to stop sidelining him and let him go. That's wasting his time.
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Oh Really? Beta Males substitute lifting heavy weights and 6 pack abs with being a "nice guy" and being the "best friend she has ever had" in hopes that she eventually pity him. Beta males want this pity to develop into romantic feelings. Beta's are the one trying to manipulate women, not Alphas. Alpha males tell you like it is and don't apologize for it. As far as personality goes... Alpha's have PLENTY of it! Men like you morph into whatever you think the women wants you to be. Nobody wants to be your EVERYTHING. A lot of people say the alpha male is someone who naturally leads the group, is the center of conversations, but I found a lot of the times the guy who feels the need to lead the group be at the center can a lot of the time be the most insecure. In many case I just think its a phony act that some guys in their late teens and twenties put on, to cover up the fact they're actually losers. You don't see many successful guys in their thirties behave like this, because they don't need to. Seduction University Forums ~ View topic - Alpha male vs insecurity
Author dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 A lot of people say the alpha male is someone who naturally leads the group, is the center of conversations, but I found a lot of the times the guy who feels the need to lead the group be at the center can a lot of the time be the most insecure. In many case I just think its a phony act that some guys in their late teens and twenties put on, to cover up the fact they're actually losers. You don't see many successful guys in their thirties behave like this, because they don't need to. Seduction University Forums ~ View topic - Alpha male vs insecurity Pierre, some of that is true of alpha males but,what Gibson said is right.They don't have to be obnoxious, they play whatever role is needed of them at the time.
Author dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 If you're still pining for your ex, then the good thing to do would be to stop sidelining him and let him go. That's wasting his time. You're right Michael, I'm just waiting for Wilson to come out of lala land with his ex & come visit me
gibson Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 A lot of people say the alpha male is someone who naturally leads the group, is the center of conversations, but I found a lot of the times the guy who feels the need to lead the group be at the center can a lot of the time be the most insecure. In many case I just think its a phony act that some guys in their late teens and twenties put on, to cover up the fact they're actually losers. You don't see many successful guys in their thirties behave like this, because they don't need to. Seduction University Forums ~ View topic - Alpha male vs insecurity I'm not talking about teenagers and young men in their early 20s. I am talking about authentic Men who get their self-worth, self-esteem, validation, approval, confidence, etc. from within. 2
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Pierre, some of that is true of alpha males but,what Gibson said is right.They don't have to be obnoxious, they play whatever role is needed of them at the time. I think some folks confuse alpha male with the loud mouth blue collar guy who is in the gym everyday lifting weights. The alpha can be a lawyer that hardly ever goes to the gym and gets all the women due to his better income and education. 1
gibson Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I think some folks confuse alpha male with the loud mouth blue collar guy who is in the gym everyday lifting weights. The alpha can be a lawyer that hardly ever goes to the gym and gets all the women due to his better income and education. Again the Alpha males I am referring too have "quiet" confidence... like the men in Movies portrayed by Clint Eastwood, Steve McQueen, Charles Bronson, Sean Connery, John Wayne, etc. Most men these days think they are suppose to be like Al Bundy, Raymond, Homer Simpson, Etc. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Pierre, some of that is true of alpha males but,what Gibson said is right.They don't have to be obnoxious, they play whatever role is needed of them at the time. They certainly don't have to be obnoxious, but they don't "play whatever role." Those are the sociopaths. Pop culture has completely distorted the use of the term "alpha" (and "beta," for that matter) in relationship to male human beings.
Author dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 I think some folks confuse alpha male with the loud mouth blue collar guy who is in the gym everyday lifting weights. The alpha can be a lawyer that hardly ever goes to the gym and gets all the women due to his better income and education. Exactly Pierre, I don't like muscle head jerks from Jersey Shore either(no offense to anyone) I AM talking about higher education, better income, lawyer type of guys.
Author dsw31 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 They certainly don't have to be obnoxious, but they don't "play whatever role." Those are the sociopaths. Pop culture has completely distorted the use of the term "alpha" (and "beta," for that matter) in relationship to male human beings. Hey! What's so wrong with sociopaths? They can be sexy!
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 They certainly don't have to be obnoxious, but they don't "play whatever role." Those are the sociopaths. Pop culture has completely distorted the use of the term "alpha" (and "beta," for that matter) in relationship to male human beings. Very good point. Sometimes a so-called Apha is a smooth talker that tells women what they want to hear. Some sociopaths can be extremely charming. Some sociopaths are natural leaders. 1
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Hey! What's so wrong with sociopaths? They can be sexy! If you ever meet a very charming man that seems perfect beware.
wilsonx Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Very good point. Sometimes a so-called Apha is a smooth talker that tells women what they want to hear. Some sociopaths can be extremely charming. Some sociopaths are natural leaders. Wrong, a so called alpha tells women whats on his mind not on hers FYI I got 3 pics, shes flying out next month to ride my 3rd leg
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Wrong, a so called alpha tells women whats on his mind not on hers FYI I got 3 pics, shes flying out next month to ride my 3rd leg Are you James Bond? I am only an actor and play Bond in the movies.:laugh:
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Seriously: A fit good looking guy that is well educated with money will be alpha even if he does not try very hard.
gibson Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Seriously: A fit good looking guy that is well educated with money will be alpha even if he does not try very hard. Alpha males don't try, they just are.
Pierre Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Are you James Bond? I am only an actor and play Bond in the movies.:laugh: Alpha males don't try, they just are. Very good point. Does an alpha man even knows he is alpha?
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