LasVegasGuy Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 The only thing that till this day reminds me of my ex is my cellphone carrier. She talked me into getting Tmobile, I originally wanted Verizon or At&t. But she was like get Tmobile so we can be on eachothers Fav 5. This is the only reminder of her, and everytime I look at my phone I reminded of her, im thinking about changing carriers just due to this.
Philosoraptor Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 The key here is that it bothers you. If something is causing you pain you should do something about it. But per this rule, only remove things that bother you. I had things remind me of my ex but it didn't hurt me, so I kept them. 2
TakeMeasIam Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 This is just silly. the next carrier you go to, you will think, "I changed to this carrier because she was on the other one...." my brother is on Tmobile. think of him instead.
Author LasVegasGuy Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 (edited) No it won't, I work for At&t so if anything it would mind me of my job. Plus Verizon would remind me of my family since everyone in my family has them. It doesn't bother me really, but only reminds me of her and the day I got this just to make her happy. Nothing else in my life makes me think about her. I didn't even want a cell phone originally just wanted to text and call her more often. Edited April 30, 2012 by LasVegasGuy
TakeMeasIam Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 In that case change your number, change everything. Why hold on?
marqueemoon4 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 No it won't, I work for At&t so if anything it would mind me of my job. Plus Verizon would remind me of my family since everyone in my family has them. It doesn't bother me really, but only reminds me of her and the day I got this just to make her happy. Nothing else in my life makes me think about her. I didn't even want a cell phone originally just wanted to text and call her more often. Hey could you hook me up with a phone upgrade and some more anytime minutes? kthxbye 1
Author LasVegasGuy Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 In that case change your number, change everything. Why hold on? I changed my number a few years ago. Some advice I got from Ls, she kept breaking NC so I decided to put a stop go it for good. I will just change the phone carrier.
Author LasVegasGuy Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 Hey could you hook me up with a phone upgrade and some more anytime minutes? kthxbye Will see what I can do, At&t : bars everyone lol
ThatDudeXO Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 My ex got me some nice stuff. So I hid them until they no longer hurt me but I'd suggest to battle through this one. No point going through all this hassle for a girl lol. 1
ThatDudeXO Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 And I'd like to add, once you have realised that seeing a certain reminder of your ex no longer hurts you, you will be proud of yourself with overcoming this pain and healing.
Author LasVegasGuy Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 I'm over it now, I know that I no longer love her, nor do I miss her. Its just that stupid movie American Reunion that reminded me of her, of when I wanted to marry practically every girl I ever dated. Also I find myself forcing myself to think about her "crazy huh" we on loveshack work so hard to get over or exs,, to the point that we no longer think about them, and here I am forcing myself to fall back in love with her because that movie made me want to.be.that hopeless romantic again. She is just the last ex that I loved like that ya know, that thinking about you all day type of love. Now don't get me wrong, i'm still changing carriers, because Tmobile sucks and plus employee discount benefits lol.
CopingGal Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 I got rid of everything I owned that reminded me of my ex except my cellphone and my roommate is going to donate that to the Domestic Violence shelter. I threw out my landline phone too. I threw out or donated every single thing.
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