Have I got anything to lose by asking her what her intentions are? (with her contact)

May 7, 2012

no, you should totally ask her out now that she is reaching out to you. the fact that she took the time to text you and say that speaks volumes, and this could be day she's ready to work things out.

is anyone even paying attention anymore?

shut it douche bag

May 8, 2012

Just thought I would let you guys know that it's been over a day and I haven't replied and am not going to. I feel a lot better about myself as a result. I'm not even doing it just to make her want me more, I'm doing it because I refuse to myself in the vulnerable position of responding to her again. Hopefully this will be a big step.

I also hope that she feels like a it of an idiot. Ignoring me for talking to another girl, then messaging me a day later pretending she didn't see me only for me to not reply.

May 9, 2012

Just thought I would let you guys know that it's been over a day and I haven't replied and am not going to. I feel a lot better about myself as a result. I'm not even doing it just to make her want me more, I'm doing it because I refuse to myself in the vulnerable position of responding to her again. Hopefully this will be a big step.

I also hope that she feels like a it of an idiot. Ignoring me for talking to another girl, then messaging me a day later pretending she didn't see me only for me to not reply.

You should really cut ties with her man, change your phone number delete her number dawg. My ex broke up with me, for some GIGS related ****, month later she asked how I was doing, immediately told her to delete my number and have a nice life. she wasn't to happy about it but it was for the best.

A woman who doesn't bother to reconcile and play childish game isn't worth anyone's time. Women always think they are right, and basically dude u gotta grow a pair and tell her straight out shes being stupid and childish. Take her down a few pegs in a mature matter that avoids calling her a bitch lol.

May 9, 2012

You should really cut ties with her man, change your phone number delete her number dawg. My ex broke up with me, for some GIGS related ****, month later she asked how I was doing, immediately told her to delete my number and have a nice life. she wasn't to happy about it but it was for the best.

A woman who doesn't bother to reconcile and play childish game isn't worth anyone's time. Women always think they are right, and basically dude u gotta grow a pair and tell her straight out shes being stupid and childish. Take her down a few pegs in a mature matter that avoids calling her a bitch lol.

But I still want her back most of the time, so why cut ties? Even if I did she lives right around the corner from me and I bump into her constantly.

The idea of telling she's being stupid in childish is interesting? Is it worth it though or is the silence from not replying to her basically saying that anyway?

May 9, 2012

I don't get it, you call the one person that suggests that you talk to her after her last text to you a douchebag....then when someone tells you okay, if you don't want her then cut ties with her, you argue with them asking why you should cut ties.

Do you want her back? Do you want her to get lost? Whichever one it is, talk to her!

May 9, 2012

I don't get it, you call the one person that suggests that you talk to her after her last text to you a douchebag....then when someone tells you okay, if you don't want her then cut ties with her, you argue with them asking why you should cut ties.

Do you want her back? Do you want her to get lost? Whichever one it is, talk to her!

The guy I called a douchebag was being sarcastic and had previously been sarcastic.

May 9, 2012

The guy I called a douchebag was being sarcastic and had previously been sarcastic.

lulz.

you mean i just said what you wanted to believe...and realized how silly it sounded? cmon man. this is now up to FOUR PAGES over a single text that meant nothing, and you've wanted someone to tell you it is some huge sign.

yeah, been there. i wished everything my ex said meant something too after the breakup. but it didn't. we've nearly ALL been in your shoes with this. it's obvious nothing we say about how you should drop it means anything...and then even sarcastically telling you exactly what you're hoping someone will say...you see the futility in what you're doing.

but that's fine, i'll be the douche bag. calling me names isn't going to change the truth of the situation though, sir.

May 9, 2012

lulz.

you mean i just said what you wanted to believe...and realized how silly it sounded? cmon man. this is now up to FOUR PAGES over a single text that meant nothing, and you've wanted someone to tell you it is some huge sign.

yeah, been there. i wished everything my ex said meant something too after the breakup. but it didn't. we've nearly ALL been in your shoes with this. it's obvious nothing we say about how you should drop it means anything...and then even sarcastically telling you exactly what you're hoping someone will say...you see the futility in what you're doing.

but that's fine, i'll be the douche bag. calling me names isn't going to change the truth of the situation though, sir.

Pretty sure I took everything most people said on board, only thing I felt was over simplifying things was saying "it meant nothing".

I don't really understand why you're making it like I'm sitting here trying to get you guys to tell me that she loves me and wants me back, I've said myself since the start of the thread that that's not the case.

Go and read my posts.

May 9, 2012

It's refusal to not want better for yourself I think is people's problem on this thread. Any man worth his salt would leave her go COMPLETELY and move on. Yet her you post with 'doormat' written all over your forhead; not willing to shut the door on her. Why? Cause you love her.....So many people say that. "Well I stayed or I tried cause I loved them". Most have no self respect. You clearly don't. If you did have self respect; you wouldn't keep posting about a girl that kicked you to the curb when things got slightly rough. You would go find something better and advise people on this site to do the same...

Grow a pair of balls and a backbone. When u do watch how life improves...If you don't; you will keep attracting girls like your ex. Have them piss all over you, while you make excuses for their behaviour. That so is not attractive for a girl..

Got balls, got backbone. You don't know me at all and aren't in a position to judge other that the fact that I've been severely troubled by being brutally hurt by my first love and first GF and I've been puzzled by her bread crumbs. I've thought about it logically and not just from love perspective. Made lists of pro's and cons of a possible reconciliation. I've also done about a million other things to try and get over are, and am continuing to do so. Starting with going travelling this summer for 3.5 months which should be a life changing experience.

I also haven't replied to her still, that's a step forward is it not?

Funnily enough I think I just saw as I was returning from a jog and walking in my garden gate, it was really dark but I didn't stand about to try make out if it was her or not like i might have done before.

May 10, 2012

Hey man I feel you, I just got dumped last Saturday and she's been texting me all the while trying to see if I was ok. I didn't reply and started over thinking, I know its painful, but you should let it go for now... Let all your emotions go down and tell yourself again that "It's over between you". Time will only tell if she wants you back, if you want her back then what you have to do like everyone is saying is just leave it be and improve yourself.. If she finally realizes your mistake after all her breadcrumbs she will be running to you and apologizing... Believe in yourself man

May 10, 2012

Hey man I feel you, I just got dumped last Saturday and she's been texting me all the while trying to see if I was ok. I didn't reply and started over thinking, I know its painful, but you should let it go for now... Let all your emotions go down and tell yourself again that "It's over between you". Time will only tell if she wants you back, if you want her back then what you have to do like everyone is saying is just leave it be and improve yourself.. If she finally realizes your mistake after all her breadcrumbs she will be running to you and apologizing... Believe in yourself man

Thanks man.

Hope you're doing alright, i know the first few weeks is extra tough.

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