jhall0125 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]Hello,[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]I am writing for some advice on a relationshipsituation. I am not sure what action ifany I should take on this matter. I wasdating/engaged to a woman for 2 ½ years. We were in the process of getting a home together and preparing for marriage. This relationship seemed perfect to me. We got along great, good chemistry, familysupport, and friend support. I washonestly a happy guy and thought I found the one. The beginning of January this year she comeshome crying saying she needs a “break” out of the clear blue no warning orfighting etc. I was totally shocked and did not know what to think and ourparents and friends were totally shocked. Nobody could get a reason or answer on why this happened out of theclear blue. During the week of thisbreak I caught her out with another guy from her work late eating at a local restaurantand found out she was text messaging this guy very heavily to days prior to ustaking a “break”. The day I caught themtogether (I did not go in or make a scene just texted het to let her know Iknew) my relationship status on Facebook was changed to single and she did notcontact me to tell me in person or on the phone. Only message I got was to pick up her stuffand that she was in love with me but did not think she loved me anymore. She would not admit to leaving me for thisother guy. Within a week she and thisguy go out on a date and he dumped her since then she has been bouncing fromguy to guy and has made no attempt to contact me. What is the issue/deal? I just cannot wrap my head around it. I am totally devastated it has been almost 4months and I am not over it yet I have had no contact with her or attempted tocontact her since this has happened. Ilove her to death and was happy with what I thought we had. I figured since she was the one that broke itshe would need to fix it. Should Icontact her? Let it go? What should I doI need advice. This all started it seemswhen she got a new job and was around a bunch more guys. She seemed so happy and it was like a lightswitch. Nobody had any priorknowledge. I am just lost seems like sheis oh so happy with her new life just don’t see how a person can be like thisand I am the one suffering. I am 26 she is almost 21 6 years age difference.[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT]
Philosoraptor Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 You're just not what she wants at the moment. She was already looking outside the relationship and had another option lined up before she ended things with you. Count your blessings she has jumped from one man to another, and not back to you as most ex's do. She would have just left again and crushed you.
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