Melbufama Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 she broke up with me because we simply wasnt working out, we were to busy, lived to far apart, ( almost 2 hours). She has a kid to take care of which takes up most her time. She texted me the other day at 9pm, asking how i was doing. For some reason my phone was being dumb and i got it the next day which i replied to later that night. And that was it, she never replied to my text. Little confused to why she would start a convo with me and not reply back to my response to her initial text. Anyone care to explain, shes forced me to basically just to put a permanent NC on her.
ThatDudeXO Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Go NC permanently. I more or less had the same thing a few days ago. She may have wanted attention or an ego boost. This is the crappy part of relationships where it becomes kind of like a game. Just stick with NC.
Philosoraptor Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 She is playing games and trying not to feel like the bad guy. If she wanted a relationship with you she would make those intentions clear. For now I'd agree with the above and not make any sort of contact. Focus on yourself and figure out where you go from here as a newly single person.
Author Melbufama Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 Go NC permanently. I more or less had the same thing a few days ago. She may have wanted attention or an ego boost. This is the crappy part of relationships where it becomes kind of like a game. Just stick with NC. Pretty ridiculous, I thought she was better than that. Shes probably seeing if she still has a connection with me she can go back to at any time. I had her number deleted in the first place, I knew it was her because of the area code. I had already planned permanent NC.
Chi townD Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Yeah, she was pulling on the leash to see if the dog was still there.
Author Melbufama Posted May 7, 2012 Author Posted May 7, 2012 Yeah, she was pulling on the leash to see if the dog was still there. Update to this I decided to troll her a little, kept a bit mature. I texted her again asking who was this? This of course pissed her off, she said " OH I GUESS IM NOT IMPORTANT ENOUGH, SINCE U DELETED ME FROM UR PHONE". Went the honest route told her we shouldn't be talking, I deleted her number to move forward. Of course she took this the wrong way saying "all the things u said to me were a lie, just wanted to say what I wanted to hear". Then I countered back on two instances where (A) her lame break up excuse which was BS, she was infact on a dating website while she ignored me texts leading to our break up. (B) her lame, ungeniune attempt to see how i was doing post break up. and she shut the hell up and good riddance.
Svet74 Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 I did nc with my ex 3 times and all 3 times he would contact me 4 weeks after. And of course stupid me would reply and all he would get was an ego boost from it. Just ignore. If attentions are to get back together she will leave a message and say so!
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