guccimane99 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 So ive been seeing this girl from well over two months we started talking when she was in germany and was dating for a while. I stopped and then after they broke up she came looking for me. I hung out with her and i just really liked her felt like a genuine connection. We had so much in common and it was weird. We hung out like three times because she lives really far away. So we went to visit her brother at a uni and she tried to sleep with me and passed out and i took care of her. Then we have been talking and she was like so and so was asking if we were dating and always brought it up so i thought she wanted to date so i asked her she said no. I was like u say u see a future what are u waiting for. So i told her i want a relationship but, if she wants to have a fling im fine with that too. She was like all you want to do is sleep with me but the thing is im still a virgin and im willing to give it to her because i see a future. So she texted me i love you last night when she was drunk after my friend said he thought he saw her all over a guy and then i remembered she goes out with her brother and her brothers friend. I told her i want a relationship and she says she needs to know me better. I told her your not gonna fully know the person fully even when ur with them for a year. When i talked to her she didnt seem anywhere intrested in the convo. Then she tells me she needs time to figure out if she wants a relationship or sex. To me it just seems like she wants sex and i dont so. Whats going on? What should i do? Should i give her the question of its either we date or we go our seperate ways. Help me please.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 You need to be proactive with women. They always want the guy to dominate the relationship. When she brought up that person wondering if your dating, you shouldn't have asked her. You should have told her, "yes, we're dating." If you wanna lose your virginity to her then do it. If you don't then you need to dump her because you're wasting her time and your own.
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