FitChick Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Kissing your hand doesn't feel like kissing someone's lips. Lips are softer and more pliable. Whatever you do, don't copy those aggressive macho guys in films who grab a woman and grind her mouth hard. That is a good way to chip a tooth and cause lip lacerations. Unless you are dating someone who is into S & M. Save the kinky stuff until you've mastered Kissing 101. I wish I could think of a great movie kiss but can't at the moment. Perhaps some women will chime in. Then go to youtube and see if you can find those scenes or watch the DVD.
Ninjainpajamas Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 what a dumb post. of course males who make dumb posts are usually the males who get female attention. Correction! You mean Dumb and Dumber post...
Pierre Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 For every man that is not attractive there are a couple of women that are not attractive and cannot get dates. If you find these women they will date you. The problems is that you want to date above your league.
Andy_K Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Where Can You Learn How To Kiss? Just do whatever she does. It's that simple. If she opens her mouth, you do. If she flicks her tongue over yours, you do the same. And so on. That will be more than enough to be a compatible kisser with pretty much anyone. Most girls have a particular style that they prefer, as with sex, so there is no 'one size fits all' magic kiss technique. When you're feeling more confident, you can be the one to take the lead and initiate things you've had girls do before.
RedRobin Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 (edited) - Don't slobber (very important!)all over her mouth/face, control your saliva - Don't jam your tongue down her throat and try to eat her face (had a girl do this to me once..still trying to shake it..I think she was a cannibal and trying to swallow my head!) - Don't be over eager and too aggressive like a dog, control your mojo yet don't be too shy, be confident even IF you aren't - Don't grab her face like a basketball and smush it into yours like in the movies, be gentle with her and maybe place on hand on the cheek/neck gently as not to choke her (unless she's into that!) - Don't lick her up her nose If you don't know where her mouth is by trying to french her with your eyes closed/in the dark - Don't stare at her for a long time when you feel like she wants to kiss, you just go for it...timing is important for mood - Don't surprise kiss her when she's not expecting it, like she's putting her bag down and you swing your face into hers and then start licking her like an icecream Alright...I'm done Good list!! will add: do not assume your tongue can be used like a lawn mower in her mouth. Don't be bitin' stuff unless you know she's into that. DON'T SMOKE! if you do, stop. Kissing a smoker is like kissing an ash tray. Overall... Never forget... You are making love to her lips. Take the time to feel and sense 'her'. It is a dance. This is why kissing is alot like what sometimes follows. oh, and if you are going to use something non-lips to test your kissing on... I'm actually not opposed to trying it on a peach, your hand, or some other fruit/vegetable that might have similar 'give' as lips. Except, not with the intention of learning a bag 'o tricks... but with the intention of getting you to learn how to be present and 'feel' things with your lips. Soft/hard. Juicy, not juicy... etc. Sensitivity and being able to read a woman (or man) is probably most of it. Edited April 30, 2012 by RedRobin
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