phineas Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Yeah, what is the point of all that bolding stuff she does? Because if you disagree with her it's obviously because you missed something so she re-quotes it & bolds it for you so.... you can still see that you disagree with her? IDK. LOL!
somedude81 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 More or less yes. Don't believe the hype about making a strong connection with a woman or learning Flirting 101 and all of its moves and rebuttals back and forth like it's a game of Grandmaster Chess. There was at least a decent connection with one of those women before we made out, but no more than other women who have rejected me. Numbers, numbers, numbers. I don't even need to tell you how many times I was rejected in between those three. Hmm, seems like I should really focusing on putting drinks in the hands of girls I'm around. Hell, if I could have "gotten drunk and made out" with D I'd probably have spent the last year dating her.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 This is out of context to how the discussion evolved. Go back and read the posts. Ah yes, the female strategy when cornered on LS is to say, "Go back and read what I've said." Posters like Elswyth and Disenchantedly Yours are good at this. Apparently, you have no problem quoting other peoples' posts and bolding them. But when it comes to quoting what you said you have a problem. I love how it is out of context when your reasoning is shown to be wrong. Because if you disagree with her it's obviously because you missed something so she re-quotes it & bolds it for you so.... you can still see that you disagree with her? IDK. LOL! That seriously made me lol. Since when is bolding and quoting everything a person says that you disagree with a good way to have a discussion? Back on topic. Here's the original quote: Here is a situation: If a girl that you have known for years randomly gives you hugs and puts her head on your shoulder and similar, would you think she is interested beyond being friends? Even if you observe that she does it with others too? I just feel like guys don't get that flirting is mostly meaningless... I don't know anyone who would consider hugs and putting heads on their shoulder as meaningless. Do Eternal Sunshine and threebyfate think this is appropriate behavior to do to men in front of their wives/gfs?
jobaba Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Hmm, seems like I should really focusing on putting drinks in the hands of girls I'm around. Hell, if I could have "gotten drunk and made out" with D I'd probably have spent the last year dating her. It won't sway their attraction if that's what you mean. I just happen to be an world renowned alcoholic. I don't know anyone who would consider hugs and putting heads on their shoulder as meaningless. Do Eternal Sunshine and threebyfate think this is appropriate behavior to do to men in front of their wives/gfs? Are you serious bro? I've gotten hugs from women I've met for all of 20 minutes sometimes.
threebyfate Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 This has gotten beyond bizarre. Near freaky in a twisted fashion. I'm out.
somedude81 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 It won't sway their attraction if that's what you mean. Not sure what you mean. My guess is that alcohol turns off the prude shield that most women keep up. I wouldn't be surprised if D had actually liked me but was so caught up in her head about not wanting to date and feeling unsexy because she used to be fat, that she couldn't see how she really felt. Getting her drunk and kissing her could have made her loosen up for once.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Are you serious bro? I've gotten hugs from women I've met for all of 20 minutes sometimes. I have too. And like you it's women I just met. However, the OP was talking about someone she knows quite well. That's a lot different. If a woman I just met came up to me and hugged me in front of my gf, it wouldn't make a difference. If a female friend came up to me and hugged me in front of my gf, then it would make a huge difference.
dasein Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I don't want any of you women flirting with me. Flirt with me, and I'll kill ya. and I don't want any of you women looking at my junk. Look at my junk, and I'll kill ya. and most importantly, I don't want any of you women touching me. Touch me, and I'll kill ya.
phineas Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I don't want any of you women flirting with me. Flirt with me, and I'll kill ya. and I don't want any of you women looking at my junk. Look at my junk, and I'll kill ya. and most importantly, I don't want any of you women touching me. Touch me, and I'll kill ya. That sounds kinda killie.
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 That sounds kinda killie. He's doing his Psycho routine from the 1981 comedy "stripes":lmao: Psyco - Lighten up Francis - YouTube 1
phineas Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Back on topic. Here's the original quote: I don't know anyone who would consider hugs and putting heads on their shoulder as meaningless. Do Eternal Sunshine and threebyfate think this is appropriate behavior to do to men in front of their wives/gfs? Hugs. not a problem. putting head on my shoulder? Problem. I've also had women give me a peck on the lips, change their pants in front of me, hold my hand, press their back into me & let me put my arms around them at a concert. Each one of those women said the same thing to me when I eventually made a move. "I didn't mean to lead you on" LULZ. These days if a woman does the above to me i'm going for the kiss. Like I said, since I got in shape it's like women recognize if they pull that crap with me i'm going for it so the one's who are just looking for attention look elsewhere. (a guy who is too afraid to make the move) The one's who knew me as forever single guy with no guts that used to do this to me stopped when they saw me with someone else. I can promise that someone else was attractive & they knew they were just wasting their time & making themselves look pathetic if they did seek validation. I don't care to be pawed by women who aren't having sex with me. Period. I also don't flirt with women i'm not interested in. My parents are both 69. They look at women who behave this way as tramps & men who behave this was as gigolo's. My mom actually uses those words. My dad insinuates it.
dasein Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 He knows that. I was feeling kinda rapey at first, but now, I dunno, it is kind of a killie feeling. Kinda gassy too actually.
phineas Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 He's doing his Psycho routine from the 1981 comedy "stripes":lmao: Psyco - Lighten up Francis - YouTube I didn;'t think he was serious. But glad it was referenced.
phineas Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 He knows that. I was feeling kinda rapey at first, but now, I dunno, it is kind of a killie feeling. Kinda gassy too actually. Uh-oh ate some of what feelsgoodman had last weekend did ya?
dasein Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Uh-oh ate some of what feelsgoodman had last weekend did ya? Did he have frozen burritos and four donuts for dinner too?
Oxy Moronovich Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 phineas and dasein, the sad part about the attention-whoring/teasing the OP is doing is it shows many (most? all?) never grow up. A guy will grow up and say, "I'm no longer going to let women use me for an ego booster." But women won't grow up. Even women over 40 will use men for ego boosters. Sad, isn't it?
dasein Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Well oxy, the thing is when they do this stuff, there may be some other woman watching, and if that woman feels in a bit of a competitive mood, you may just get your wingwang wangled. So I can't complain about it all that much. Plus there's no direct link to feminism for me to rant about. 2
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