eggy Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 So theres this hot bartender that have gotten me sprung for a few months now. I've been going to her bar once a month and every time she remember what drink I always ordered. I finally have the nerve to ask her name this past week. But shes always so busy so I can never get into a long convo with her. So before I left I gave her a rose that this lady was selling. She smiled and winked at me as I walk out. I also recently re-activated my fb just to search for her. I finally found her...so I was wondering if it would be creepy to send her a request. I find it kind of cheesy and creepy.. but this could be my one shot. In a perfect world I would love to bump to her outside of her work to ask her out properly. Guidance please.
TheFinalWord Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 So theres this hot bartender that have gotten me sprung for a few months now. I've been going to her bar once a month and every time she remember what drink I always ordered. I finally have the nerve to ask her name this past week. But shes always so busy so I can never get into a long convo with her. So before I left I gave her a rose that this lady was selling. She smiled and winked at me as I walk out. I also recently re-activated my fb just to search for her. I finally found her...so I was wondering if it would be creepy to send her a request. I find it kind of cheesy and creepy.. but this could be my one shot. In a perfect world I would love to bump to her outside of her work to ask her out properly. Guidance please. Bartender? I'm sure others will provide exceptions of successful hook-ups, but generally these aren't good types to go after. Flirting is her job so you can't read into that much. Bartenders get hit on all the time and are typically super attractive. You better be too if you want any chance. Most of them drink and party a lot, do you like that kind of lifestyle? A girl that works until 4:00 am? Oh man, facebook? Don't do it bro. Yes, stalkerish is one way to put it. Anytime you think Facebook is your one shot, stop, tell yourself you are temporary insane, and don't do whatever it was you were about to do
SmileFace Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 I am generally convinced that she is just her job. HoweveR ask her out in person. Unless you guys have mutual friends it may come across as too forward. Anyway I only posted because the first post in the op made me laugh. 1
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