Svet74 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Me and my ex officially broke up a year ago. Then we're in contact and still had an un official relationship and Also some no contact for about 10 months. Exactly 3 months ago I cut all ties with him. I'm very good friends with his cousin and we hang out once in a while. She over heard a conversation between my ex and her father. He was asking him questions about his life, future plans, and I'd he was dating anyone. My ex told him that he likes a girl that he can't be with because he needs to change first. The girls name that he said was me. It's been about 2 weeks since then and I haven't herd from my ex. He's also hanging out or messing around with some chick. I'm just confused. I still love my ex but I don't know why he is doing nothing? . I haven't reached out either.
Philosoraptor Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Are you sure it was you, not someone with a similar name? Just for clarity. Anyways words and actions are two different things. I'd expect nothing to come of this and he is probably still healing which is why you would cross his mind. Just keep working on yourself and evaluate things if anything comes of it.
Author Svet74 Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 Yes it was me because my name is very un commen. His cousin also said he asked about me a lot those couple days. I'm surprised he would say something like that to her dad.
xenomorph Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I gotta ask: what do you think he means by he "needs to change first"?
Author Svet74 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 Well he had or still has not too sure An alchol problem and he partied a lot. A smoker which I'm against. And I believe there was some drug use. I guess from what it seems like he doesn't want to start up communication until he quits first cause he knows I won't talk to him.
Author Svet74 Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 Well sort of I initiated the breakup but we werent officially together because he broke up with me a yr ago. So in oct we started talking/ dating again and he knew I wanted to be with him but he wouldn't commit so end of jan I broke things off and told him I'm moving on. Then he tried to do the same thing a month after like talk but I told him that I wasn't doing the whole non relationship thing again. It's been 2 months since then we haven't talked.
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