mortensorchid Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Last Friday night I had an Internet date with someone, we had a nice time. But ... I'm not feeling right about this. Please let me explain ... We met on a website, we exchanged a few emails and had an IM chat or two. I have this rule that if the person does not ask to meet or even offer a phone number by the fourth email then they aren't going to ever ask you for it. I have had situations where the correspondance goes on for weeks, sometimes months and the two never meet. So after the fourth email, I decided to forget about him. He contacted me again about two weeks ago, we exchanged emails and then talked on the phone twice. We met finally last Friday, we had a good time. He asked if I wanted to go drink some coffee with him at another location, I said no because I had some things to do for a class that night. I haven't heard from him since. It's only been two days, but in my experience if the man has not called within the first 24-48 hours after the get together, he's not interested. I liked the guy well enough, maybe if I get to know him a bit better I would like him even better. But, the past has taught me otherwise. Should I or shouldn't I send a text or call? I know it's an old story, but what do others think?
persevere Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 I wouldn't worry too much. Maybe he had a lot of stuff going on this weekend. Us guys are pretty trained to not seem too eager. Even if he wants to call, he may just be laying low. If you feel like calling...then call. Then you'll know, either way, if he's interested. No sense in stewing over it anymore than you have to.
Author mortensorchid Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 I will let him contact me. No sense in looking too eager and i will come off as too eager if i call him.
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