luvflower Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 (edited) Hello loveshack~ I feel myself starting to like him...a lot. He stares at me all the time telling me that im beautiful,that he enjoys our time together and he can never get enough of me. I feel the same about him. Thing is we're unable to see each other as Much as we'd like and it makes me feel uneasy...wanting to rush things. Of course I don't want to run him away by trying to force or rush anything like moving to the next level, whatever that may be. So what's the best way to remain sweet, supportive, caring, and patient when you're really annoyed and losing interest due to the relationship's slow progression. Aside from my normal activities and work that keep my attention, should I date other people to avoid thinking of him all the time and to avoid wanting to rush him into a commitment. Im asking questions because I really dont think I can handle heartache right now in my life. So I'd rather either break up with him or occupy my time with something or some one to make me feel like im not putting all my eggs in one basket. Edited April 30, 2012 by luvflower
Author luvflower Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 Spilling my guts about how I feel is not an option...
dasein Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Yes, absolutely date other people, cultivate as many options as you like.
Author luvflower Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 How long have you been seeing each other for? We've been going out for almost 4 months.
muse08 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Perhaps there's someying about the relationship you're not saying. How does he treat you? Are you physically attracted to him or do you feel he's a NICE guy so you should just stick it out?
Yookie Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 How often do you see each other? Is it just for intimacy or do you go places together? After four months most will know if they want to see you exclusively or not. If he doesn't then time to move on.
Author luvflower Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 (edited) How often do you see each other? Is it just for intimacy or do you go places together? After four months most will know if they want to see you exclusively or not. If he doesn't then time to move on. We go places, spending the day together...doing different things and truly having fun because we both have sharp wits. I have a short attention span and dont like being bored and he's learning that. But we see each other about once sometimes twice a week depending our schedules.live in different cities. And different schedules... that's part of the issue. We didn't get intimate until about three months into the relationship...which doesn't slays mean anything. Just though I'd put that out there. Edited May 1, 2012 by luvflower
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