mortensorchid Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 I knew two guys (one was a former boyfriend) who made some pretty serious mistakes by jumping into situations too quickly. I was rather shocked and horrified to see this happen to the both of them. The first was a friend of my old boyfriend's. He seemed like a good enough guy, but he and his wife married after knowing each other for about three months after meeting online. His wife seemed nice as well, but they did nothing but fight all the time after they married. They were also seemingly in a huge rush to have children. She miscarried several times in the two years I knew them, and he was fighting with her the whole time saying that he didn't want to have children either. I can't imagine that the two of them are together anymore. As for my old boyfriend, I have posted about him before. After breaking up with me because I wouldn't do what I was told all the time, he rebounded and barely a year later married a woman he met on the Internet. The marriage lasted about two years. He said he didn't want to have children and he married a woman with two children, one from each previous marriage, and he was supporting her and the kids. She got a trailer down in North or South Carolina and started going down there more and more often to "spend time with her daughter" who was going to college down there (and that he was paying for, by the way). She was spending the entire summer down there at some point, and then she ran off and married someone else. This was husband #4 on her part, and then she divorced husband #4 barely a year later! I don't get this. What propeled these two into doing something that they both clearly weren't ready to do? Loneliness? They were both so eager to have someone in their lives that they agreed to all this? I guess that's the answer.
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