lovers Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 i havent spoken to her for a long time, saw each other twice yesterday but i pretended like i didnt notice her. i feel like texting her saying "i hope there is no hard feelings between the two of us" or " i hope we can be civil with eachother one day." i have ignored her contacts for 4 months now. should i break np contact?
lalalandman Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 So you want to break NC for these empty, useless comments? Why?
xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 sounds like you were the one who broke up with her. why do u want to extend an olive banch to someone you are intentionally ignoring?
Author lovers Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 no she broke up with me and left me for some other guy. i held strong and ignored her for awhile and feel a bit indifferent. i guess seeing her makes me want to talk to her ask her how everything is going, how she is doing in school. we were once very close and had goals together :/
xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 no she broke up with me and left me for some other guy. i held strong and ignored her for awhile and feel a bit indifferent. i guess seeing her makes me want to talk to her ask her how everything is going, how she is doing in school. we were once very close and had goals together :/ tape the word dignity to your forehead and recite to yourself she's not worth it. the worst thing you can do is befriend an ex who left you for someone else. you're going to open yourself to a world of hurt. 3
Tiera D Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 "She Dumped You For Another Dude" Remember this sentence for the rest of your life,surely u remember the pain she inflicted upon you. TD
immitable Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 "She Dumped You For Another Dude" Remember this sentence for the rest of your life,surely u remember the pain she inflicted upon you. TD he doesn't have to remeber anything, he can do whatever he feels like. Remembering means holding a grudge, it is a brden to hold onto. It really depends on the reason of the bu and whay she left him for another dude, maybe she didn't want that initially but maybe he somehow contributed to that. It is often the case that woman doesn't get enough attention she starts looking elsewhere and women get hit on all the time so it easier for them to leave. If you still have hopes for reconciliation or you think that you to do with her leaving you, then contact her (depending on how much time has passed) it has to be at least some months bc you have to make sure her infatuation with the new guy has worn off to some degree. Defínitely don't send any letters as she may read it to her new bf. If you think there is hope, you can forgive her, you have strong feelings for her (not just the feeling of rejection) still think you can get to her somehow, months have passed and you want her, it wouldn't hurt to at least try to slowly try to open the lines of communication. You never know.
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