Alexandria23 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 My ex bf and I had been together for two years when one night (after we made plans to hang out) he called to say he just couldn't do it anymore and didn't really give me a reason. The weekend previous to breaking up, we were having issues and I basically told him if he wasn't serious about me then he just needed to tell me so I could make a decision. Well he came to me and said I love you and want to work on this but then breaks up with me the next weekend. It's been a month since the break up now and I was doing awesome with no contact 2 weeks of it when my younger brother says to me " I got a message from him and he said he wants me to look out for you and make sure you don't date any douche bags because your a good girl". I was pretty confused about this bc the last time I attempted to talk to him he couldn't give me any type of answer at all as to why he ended it, hasn't spoke to his family about it but can message my brother? So anyway I caved in and decided to send him a text just saying hey and he replied instantly. We agrees to see eachother. So while we saw each other he said I miss you you look so good I want to take it slow and see how it goes. Cooked me dinner yadda yadda. After I saw him though I ended up feeling worse about the situation because I knew I had given him my personal power again. I haven't heard from him since (it's been a couple days now) and I know what I need to do I just don't get why he's doing this if I'm such a great person and what are your thoughts on what he's telling me?
Author Alexandria23 Posted April 30, 2012 Author Posted April 30, 2012 I guess I just need some advice on what to do here. Does he actually miss me or is he just going to play little head games and keep coming back when he gets shot down and needs an ego boost? Is that he actually needs to think about things? When I asked him if he still loved me he said he didn't know what to think so I said well to me that's a no and at least I've got an answer. Then he said how is that no? So I said well you either do or you don't and he just said not everyone thinks the same way. I just don't know how to proceed. Please help!!
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