Chrisal23 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 I broke up with my ex for almost a month. I thought I was fine but days like today make me feel so low. I'm confused I thought it was good she broke up with me but now I think I miss her and want get back. Is this normal?
Philosoraptor Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 I broke up with my ex for almost a month. I thought I was fine but days like today make me feel so low. I'm confused I thought it was good she broke up with me but now I think I miss her and want get back. Is this normal? Of course it's normal, you lose that comfort factor as well as the familiarity. Ask yourself the question of how long would it even last if you tried again? You were obviously unhappy enough to end it... has that really changed? I understand the want for that familiarity... but would you only be extending the pain by getting back together with her? If you don't want it to last forever then think of the extra pain you'd give her by coming back then ending it. It's normal to have waves of emotion that make you want the ex back... but if it made you happy you wouldn't have left.
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