Jimmyboy101 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 So I (age:26) have a strong relationship of over a year and a half now. I recently found out that only a few weeks before my girlfriend and I made things official she had a drunk one night stand with a guy she met from her job. Listening to the details about what happened that night disgust me for the fact that her and I were already intimate and close (we agreed not to be intimate with anyone else). It was inevitable that we were going to have a future together. We are a good year and a half in and immensely in love and were good friends another year and a half before that. I know she had a bad spell of sadness going on in her life (family issues) at the time she had that night out. I was working late that night and unaware of what happened. The next day she called me and within our convo. she said that "I am so happy you are not someone who tries to take advantage of people". I did not think too much about asking her what she meant by it. It was totally random. So fast forward over a year later, the truth comes out about that night. I guess I am just hurt because this guy called her to invite her out recently and she said no, that she has a boyfriend. Again, he persisted by texting her to come out and she strongly declined. He then goes on and tells her, "Did you not enjoy that night we had together and that good ****?". At first she denied to me that anything happened, but eventually told me the truth and how she is disgusted by what happened. I asked her to tell me exactly what happened (I do not know what I did this). I know she is sincere about what happened. I guess I feel hurt and disgusted with the details. Do I have a legit reason to be mad and upset by the event that took place? I can not get it out of my mind. When I think about it I get very upset and it is apparent to my girlfriend (age: 28). If anyone has any advice or stories of their own I would be very appreciative.
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